| Please read my profile all the way through. Telling me about your personality will have a bigger effect on my wanting you as a friend than will sending me nude pictures of you.
If I am too old for you or not in the area to where you are willing to relocate, please write me and say so and put an age limit or to where you will relocate on your profile and I will not write you a secind time.
I believe protecting, loving, helping her and caring for my other half is just as much being a gentleman or a daddy as it is being a dominant. I like to be a gentleman at all times. I am a dominant or master and will
incorporate those qualities when she asks me to be her one. As her dominant, I will also look at how I can help her improve and become a better person. This includes the decision as to if discipline is needed and if so, what type. I will make some decisions for her after we have discussed them and determined what she wants me to decide for her. What is a master except a dominant with more experience and knowledge. Same goes for a slave, if she has never been submissive how can she know how to be a slave?
I have been controlling others since the 1960's and have been working with rope for just as long. I am not looking for a doormat but rather someone with a mind of her own. I want someone who is submissive because it is what she is or wants to become.
I enjoy helping other learn, even if it is just via email. I try to attend the local munches regularly. I have found it is the easiest way to meet and enjoy the company of others with the same likes and dislikes. If you would like info on munches, I will provide it when possible.
I have been living this lifestyle since the 1980’s. I want someone who is service oriented and knows the key is being good friends first and then letting it take its course. It may turn into a full relationship that could include love or just using you, depending on your desires after all "choosing me" is your choice.
I have learned to be patient and am willing to take the time to teach someone whom I just need to bring around to my way or someone who is new to the lifestyle. I do not feel the need to control you from the first time we exchange emails. However if you are with me, I can micromanage you or just give you a set of guidelines to follow.
I do not use titles as I feel they are not needed, you are a person too. That means I will be patient and take my time getting to know you and allowing the relationship to grow. I do not rush anything. When we reach an agreement and I know what we both consider acceptable then I will take control. I can be very strict and demanding when the occasion calls for it.
I live comfortably but am not rich. This means that while I can afford to have someone here with me, I cannot send her money, not before she is even with me. I can reimburse you for your travel to me once you are here but am not going to send you cash for you to come to me. I will always treat you like a lady in public but can still treat you like my s. I dislike heavy smokers. Family is very important to me, even though I have no children of my own.
I want someone who can go with me to various events or on vacations. This can vary from black tie to swim suits. I believe in open communication (about the good as well as the bad). There should never be a time when you feel you cannot come to me about something, even before we meet, be it online, over the phone, or talking one-on-one. I might have forgotten something you have learned. I have learned not to rush training, rather use some gentle prodding and allow it to occur when it will. This does not mean I am against punishment when needed. It means I have learned that one type of punishment does not work for all. No one can ever know everything. I do not know you or any quirks you might have and you do not know me. I would like to have a permanent relationship but also will be happy with online friends.
If you think we might be a match, write me; what have you got to loose? My cat is my only companion, at the present time, thus the picture of her. |
