| First of all let me say this:
FORM LETTERS ARE INSULTING!!!!
If you cannot be bothered to put some effort into your FIRST CONTACT, why the HELL would I believe you would be less lazy should I give you any of my time?
I really suggest you read my ENTIRE profile before writing to me.
And yes I will know....I have superpowers!
and now, onto the profile...
I have decided that what I really need is a house wife/husband. Someone that enjoys creating Domistic Bliss for his/her family. NOT a freeloader or "kept" person who just wants to prance around in an apron and heels with a tray of brownies!
1950's inspired, or happy barefooted hippie it don't matter to me as much as having an sincere desire to create a warm loving household for your family.
This is potentially a long term relationship but will start as an on-going part time process of getting to know each other and see if we are what the other really needs to be happy as more than just a playmate.
So we will not be rushing into play, though play is a strong element of this. I laught a lot, have a strong silly streak, so if you are looking for a "Femnazi" type ..well that ain't me! 
There is a lot more, but this should give you a good idea of what I am looking for.
Be aware you would be seeking to join with me and my Husband as OUR housewife/husband. The sexual, emotional attachments to each of us is totally up for discussion.
My husband is NOT Dominant OR Submissive. He is Kink Aware...volunteers at various clubs, co-owns our Swingers/Kink/Poly Crossovers club and is in an Open Marriage with me,,,,but NOT in a D/s relationship with me.
Ok, there is enough to start to form a picture of us and what we seek. So..read on for more about my interests and if you feel this is something you would like to discuss...let's talk.
Form Letters will be instantly rejected. If you don't like it, don't bother sending me one. I will not be the least upset on missing out on chatting with such a lazy git!
My approach to finding a sub for a relationship with is: IT IS A RELATIONSHIP!
Treat it much as a date in the vanilla world. Show me your interest in me, court me, woo me. Show me you are fun and interesting, respectful and strong without being pushy or crude.
Bring me flowers, hold my chair, and open the door for me. Defer to my wishes with grace and receive my smile with joy.
Is there a book that you really enjoy? Lifestyle or vanilla, that would be a thoughtful gift to share and will give me iinsight into what you are like. 
Lets make a connection, find common ground other than kink!
Do not approach me with a shopping list of your Kinks and BDSM fantasies....there will be time for that once we decide we even want to spend time together.
If you wish to determine if we are compatible enough to start a dialoge, take a look at my profile. I have spent considerable time filling it out.
You can see my interests quite clearly in BDSM as well as the mundane world.
If all I sought was a sub to beat and boss I can find that any weekend at the local clubs.
I want more..and so do you or you would not be writing me...
If you are just looking for physical kink under the guise of a D/s relationship, you have the wrong person.
Telling me that you can do "oral worship for hours" is YOUR kink, and I don't want to hear about it..untill I TELL you to talk about it, and that won't be untill I have decided you have EARNED such a favor.
I am in a poly relationship with a wonderful man...a Service Top for the most part. He understands and encourages my search for a sub to share our life with.
My heart is big enough for this...
So, when you write to me keep in mind what I have said above as well as the following no-no's
Write something INTERESTING..On just my 2nd day here I have actually received a message that said nothing more than.."Prehaps?"
YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDIING?!?
What Dominant Woman is going to waste her presious time on someone too lazy to even TRY to make a good impression?
DO NOT CALL ME MISTRESS! You do not yet have the privilege. We are not in a relationship and that is what that title means to me. Ms. Mydnite, Miss or most any respectfull form ot address OTHER than Mistress will do....
.....Words have power...Names more than all others....
I am Aggressive, Direct, Outspoken, Caring, Harsh, Sadistic, Loving, and want to find a sub that truly NEEDS to serve such a Woman and be appreciated for it.
You MUST have your profile filled out completly! Do not approach me with a bare minimium profile and a "ask me whatever you want to know" attitude.
WHY SHOULD I DO ALL YOUR WORK?!
INCLUDE A FACE SHOT IN ANY MESSAGE.
I do not cyber! Do not write to me and ask me what nasty things I would like to do to you...the answer is NOTHING! I do not cyber and asking this is just another way of getting wanking material without investing in a relationship!
You need to live close enough to me to actually be able to build an ongoing reallife relationship. So guys, if you are more than 2 hours away, it will not work.
And NO I will not chat with you on another site, I will NOT IM or anysuch thing. Be content you have my interest here untill such time we have built enough mutual interest for something else!
My preference is for large, masculine men with hair on their chests. You don't have to have any on your head, but on the chest is a plus. 
Whimpy, shrimpy men that I can pick up and body slam are not appealing. (though I just might enjoy tossing you around enough to concider if in all other ways you present as masculine, rather than a sissy.)
In Female subs my preference is for curves, the more old fashioned "hour glass" figure. Very tiny, skinny gals I fear I might break! lol
I DO NOT however suffer fools gladly. I have no patience with those that think they will be the exception to my rules.
If this upsets you...PLEASE, approach someone else...it will not change.
JUST FOR FUN, I'M ATTACHING A COPY OF AN ACTUAL EMAIL I JUST RECEIVED...
"well thanx for your time bitch mistress lol "
AND THIS BOY WONDERS WHY NO WOMAN WILL GIVE HIM THE TIME OF DAY!
Seems he didn't like my refusual to serve his desires....thinly discuised as a plea to worship me.
Yes my darlings I am a kinky slut at times and darn proud of it!!
I have never understood where the idea came about that just because a woman is Dominant, she cannot enjoy sex!
Well my hubby understands that at least for me this is Not true.
Male or Female, wherever you fall on the scale of D/s, M/s, whatever.....feel free to contact me if you would be interested in being invited to play.
The location will be in the Cleveland area of Ohio
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