Why am I here?
well, one day, a now ex-girlfriend and i decided to use certain household items in non-traditional ways. and then we discovered there are whole bunch of other people as twisted as us, and there's *lot* of material to cover.
in case you missed the 'ex' above, we're no longer together. and it feels like we barely scratched the surface (pun intended.) i can't go back to the sweetness and light of vanilla; handcuffing myself to the bed, and accidentally losing they key, just isn't as much fun as it sounds.
so what am i looking for?
i'm treating this as any other dating site, (with the exception that i might willingly be handing myself over to a psychopath.) I'm a sucker for beautiful eyes, a lovely smile, red hair, curves, sarcasm, dry humor, the geek look, bookishness, body art, assertiveness, intelligence, open mindedness (yes i'm fully aware i'm on a bdsm site), long hair, playfulness, and mild shyness. I'm turned off by insensitivity, arrogance, empty-headedness, loudness and drama-queenism.
above all, please like to explore, because i certainly do.
me: i like to balance my life between the internal and the external. reading and writing are my passions, but some of the best fun i've had is getting drunk and dancing to good music. I have a diverse taste in music, ranging from classical piano, to heavy metal, electronica and trance. my favorite pandora radio features lush, laid back female vocals with a techno/new age background.
I'm lucky to actually love what i do for a living (except the waking up early part). It leaves me very busy, but fulfilled. my current interests include learning the keyboard, spanish, zumba, and kickboxing. i'm also working through the imdb 250, and have a warm place in my heart for supernatural themed shows (yes,
including supernatural.)
about kink:
i'm not here looking for a 24/7 thing or any combination of owning/being owned. also, i'll be looking to keep this in the bedroom, with maybe light d/s elements in vanilla life. that's where i want to start at, and let's see where it leads. i'm looking for a switch who leans on her domme side, and possibly a domme who's willing to keep it in the bedroom. i'm curious about munches and such, and it'll be a bonus to find someone who is too.
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