Well, the name says the starting point: I'm a bear in Oakland.
Beyond that -- I'm a switch, about a Kinsey 4.5, and a big old geek (computer, gaming, and SF). Though I should say, to modify the image that may have leapt into your head, I'm also a foodie, raconteur, and eclectic film lover. ;)
Oh -- and an erotic writer and performer! Mustn't forget that!
(My sense of humor has been compared to the Teklamakan desert -- dry, broad, and very obscure)
I'm also in an open poly relationship, with kids at home -- so my time is somewhat limited. I'm not looking to be a primary partner to anyone else; I don't have the time or emotional energy I feel I ought to commit to that.
On the other hand, I can be a very intense playpartner, fuckbuddy, or whatever the term du jour is.
I've been both a first-time top (and bottom) for newbies, and a "Oooh, let's see how far we can push this limit" top (and bottom) -- finding the right person to have fun with is more important, to me, than finding the precise right kind of fun to have. (That said, I do like tempting people into my kind of fun.)
I have a fairly large set of psychological-play kinks that they just don't have boxes for here -- ask me if you want to know more.
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