My interests in BDSM lean towards the D/s dynamic. I would not describe myself as a masochist however, submitting to pain is definitely a way for me to express my submission.
I’ve found a great deal of inner strength since becoming involved in BDSM 10 years ago (yes, really, 10 years lol) and I’m not the same woman I was when I consciously sought out and entered this culture. I believe that is because I found the place I can be my true self. To the outside world I appear to be extremely confident and somewhat of a ‘type A’ personality, in reality, that isn’t the case and within my personal relationships I am definitely submissive.
I identify as a submissive but that doesn’t limit me to just that role. For me, slavery is a spinoff of submission, something that I could grow into with the right dominant. I also have a ‘little girl’ side that is vulnerable and likes to be nurtured. She slips out from time to time and most would never know it. For the right dominant she makes herself known.
I’m bbw, I posses a good sense of humour, I have a strong intellectual streak, I write BDSM and erotic fiction (yes I’ve been published beyond the net). I love good conversation and really enjoy a good debate. BDSM plays a major part in my life but it is not everything in my life. As I mentioned above, I don’t consider myself a masochist there are some S&M activities that some would consider extreme that I dearly love. I think extreme is defined by the players and my extreme could very well be your mundane.
Please don't contact me if you are married or otherwise involved in a relationship, that's not a road I want to wander down. Also, I seek an RT relationship so cybering across the country (or ocean!) really isn't for me.
Respectfully,
kayla
