First of all, NO CHAT. DO NOT ASK.
I'm a journalist, legislative analyst and professional dominant. A dedicated hedonist with an intellectual bent and an insatiable appetite for adventure.
In my private life I am a switch. I'm also bisexual as far as play, although romantically hetero, and I'm open to many possibilities for what I might do at a party or event.
In terms of meeting and corresponding with people, my interests are:
1. A long-term male partner in crime for an unconventional, open/poly relationship. This could potentially be a switch or a dominant for whom this is a bedroom game (at least with me); or a submissive interested in cuckolding, with whom it could be more "serious." I truly love to bottom with the right dominant, and when I'm in that role I'm truly in it, but my personality is not the slightest bit submissive. Outside the bedroom, either I will be the leader or it will be an equal partnership.
Requirements: single, age 44-65, nonsmoker, DC metro area, college educated, intelligent, financially secure, experienced at swinging (unless you are a cuckold). Can't be allergic to teenagers or dogs. Scuba diving certification a big plus.
NOTE: if you are interested in a relationship, tell me about YOU, not what you want me to do to you. If this is solely about fulfilling your fantasies then the appropriate thing to request is a professional session.
NOTE 2: if you don't live here you are not a prospect for a relationship until you do live here. It is possible for a professional session to lead to a nonprofessional relationship if we are compatible, but if you are not local then I will not consider engaging with you for free until you are.
2. A domestic arrangement. I am considering changing my dungeon arrangement in the spring and would be very interested in connecting with a submissive who can offer me appropriate space (or rent a house or apartment together) in exchange for long term play. Alternatively, we have a vacant room in the house where my dungeon playspace is currently located and if I find the right person I could renew the current arrangement. Either of these situations could range from purely sharing space to an exchange of space and/or labor for play/training, to a much more involved relationship.
3. A submissive who will clean the dungeon and the house where it is located regularly and RELIABLY once a month, either because he desires to serve or in exchange for play sessions.
4. I am also interested in meeting submissives for casual play but only under limited circumstances. If you are a male who is not compatible as a dating prospect or interested in a domestic arrangement, I would ONLY be interested in professional sessions. If you are a female submissive who is not available to live at the house, I could be interested in a play-only relationship if you are willing to serve me at parties.
5. I am always interested in hearing from like-minded people (male, female or couple) who I could invite to parties.
I am not interested in casual play with dominants unless we meet at a party or event.
Richmond/Hampton Roads in January
It looks like I will be going to DragonCon with my son every year so you can count on seeing me the last week of August in Atlanta or enroute in North or South Carolina. AND I plan to host an adult party at the con in my suite (which is reserved for 2014). I would be interested in hearing from submissives or others who want to help make that happen.
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