I am a gentleman.
"A gentleman is simply a patient wolf." - Lana Turner
Excellent condition... low mileage... well-maintained... regular tune-ups and fluid changes... high performance... lots of throttle... solid firm ride... taut suspension... handles curves well... great cornering grip... scalpel-sharp steering... reliable... dependable... long-lasting... ready for rubber-burning adventures, blistering fast rides, or slow easy cruising...
(humor is a virtue)
I'm half-Transylvanian. I'm being serious now. I bite. Hard. Maybe I'll be gentle just for you. Probably not.
My first language was hungarian. I speak a few others, and would love to learn more. My real name means "Oak tree" in another language. Guess which one...
"The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function."
- F. Scott Fitzgerald
I'm a petrol-head with eco-footprint concern. I wanna have my bio-diesel-plug-in-hybrid-sports-car and eat it too. No, wait...
I'm a thrill-seeker, but I'm plenty serious when necessary. I can be laid-back or I can be intense... think "passionate." Can you appreciate intensity with plenty of silliness along the way? I like life on the spicy side.
I'm an idealist and also a skeptic. I thrive on debate and respectful intellectual discourse. I appreciate sharp, witty minds. I think for myself. I hope you do as well. If you capture my interest, I may challenge you. You up for a good challenge?
You wanna discuss specific turn-ons and fantasies? Engage me in conversation. I'm very open-minded and kinky, even by this community's standards, but BDSM is not my life. It is an interest of mine, not "who I am" as a person.
However, I would dive deeply into this interest with the right person, even on a regular basis... but there is much more to life! I am a complex person with many facets and varied interests...
Some of these are:
Environmental science & policy, mama nature, human rights, social justice, traveling, languages, singing, playing guitar & piano (want to
learn saxophone and cello next), dancing, Burning Man, burners, fire spinning, photography, artsy-fartsy indie or foreign films, acting, poetry, oaks and redwoods, hiking, biking, surfing, rolling around in bed, turning bed-frames into metronomes, carving up curvy roads with speed and precision, laughter, BIG dogs (not those pitiful handbag toys), cats, pina coladas and getting caught in the rain, sitting by fires, sushi, whipped cream (with or without handcuffs), gourmet food,
good coffee & tea, rich chocolate, fine wine, quality herb, hugging, cuddling, kissing, biting, wild angry sex, wild happy sex, Peace, Love, and Vitamin Ohhh...
You, hopefully, are a sexy, intellectual, and adventurous woman, about 20 to 33 in age.
You enjoy surrendering control or wrestling (mentally and physically) over it. I'm not a fan of hard labels, but to spell it out, you probably identify as submissive or switch. As for friendship, I'll talk to anyone interesting and worthwhile.
Taking the D/s roles beyond "play" into the more serious day-to-day realm is an option, but I am not attracted to doormats or low self-esteem. I appreciate strong and opinionated women... all the more to value their consensual relinquishing of control.
This isn't about who is better or stronger than whom... it's about whatever turns you on. I believe being dominant and in control is less about telling others what to do and more about having mastery over oneself.
It should go without saying that a dominant, a switch, a submissive, a slave, or any other role imaginable all deserve the same respect and none of the roles is superior or inferior to any other.
It pisses me off that some men and women in the "lifestyle" think they have some right to talk down to people they don't even know yet and aren't intimate with. This is supposed to be thrilling and exciting - not a hostile, dreaded chore.
Too many members of this site have told me they are bombarded with insulting emails from so-called "Dominants" who immediately demand obedience or reprimand a confident, intelligent woman for the very traits that set her apart.
Shame.
That won't be me.
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