I am a gentleman, with a bad boy streak. I tend to be truthful to a fault. I am employed, sane, non-smoker, drug/disease-free, social drinker. I'm 5-10½, 195#, 48yrs (but look younger). I'm not perfect, but I take care of myself. I'm good looking, but not enough to be conceited about it. I am quick witted, funny and sarcastic, intelligent, and yes- real.
I tend to be a private person, for reasons past and present. I am willing to share more information and pics with those I feel comfortable with. But enough about me...
You: need to be a submissive female, sane, drug/disease free, and good-looking. A few extra pounds is ok, but the closer you get to my weight, the less likely I'll be attracted. Age isn't important- older is fine if you've got your looks, younger is great if you're mature enough. Your experience in bdsm/kink isn't important, just willingness.
If you think I might be interested in you, write me. Unless you're rude, I respond to my messages politely- interested or not. If you don't have pictures on your profile, you'll have to send me a face/body pic (G-rated is fine).
If you've gotten this far, you've probably seen something that piques your interest, so I'll take this opportunity to confess- I am married. I'm not really looking to change that at the moment, (not to be cliche, but it's complicated) so reserve your judgment of me unless you get to know me. I'll not be judgmental of you in return.
I'm open to general conversation with anyone- sub or Dom, as long as the conversation is interesting and not just mindless chatter about your dog shedding or other drivel.