I am a very busy Lady so read through all of this before you contact Me. If you can e-mail Me you stand a better chance of contact since I don't get on here but say... every other month, maybe. Learn who I am and think to yourself if you fit what I seek. After all, it is all about Me. Do not waste My time. I am real and demand whomever contacts Me to be honest and upfront in all regards.
If you seek to serve there is always cleaning, yard work and projects to be done.
I am on here to find the love of My life that doesn't end till I end. I have a visual contrast fetish for black skin next to My very fair skin. I seek an Alpha male personality, be he submissive to dom. I want to be IN love. He does not even have to be in the lifestyle but an open mind would be needed as he learned about the things I am involved in.
I am Matriarchal - males are here to serve Women and children
- I don’t cyber. I seek a real life 24/7 complete, sexually monogamous relationship
- I believe in extended Matriarchal family units
- I don’t have time for games, lies, BS or drama
- I am not interested in inanity or those who are loutish, whine or have bad etiquette
- D/D free. I am also not shopoholic nor an alcoholic but do have a drink now & then
- I am frugal in many ways but always as generous as I can be
- I have MANY groups on Y! and . Yes, another busy endeavor
- I am a true FemDomme Sadist. I am a sadist all the time, not just when I 'play'
I am a Queen member of the Black Orchid Gynarchic Society and have several BDSM/fetish related web sites.
Most websites are dot com such as My BDSMSanctuary
There you will find out more about Me in case you seek a session. It hasn't been updated lately either - LOL. I am writing a book so I am pretty busy with life and writing.
I have the privilege to live most of My fetish BDSM FemDomme life out in the open. My name is Kay and I run FetishFlair net: leather, vinyl, fetish gear, clothing up to 12x, swimsuits, and even costumes and jewelry. Check out the site, we ship world wide and do custom orders also.
To the Ladies: I assist Women in becoming self-empowered, either as a Dominant or submissive. I train Females to become a Mistress, helping Her understand the best way to control males and to play safe. I also train Females to become excellent slave/subs. Just because You choose to play a passive role in Your personal or sexual life does not mean You are weak or below a male. Women choose to be submissive but by nature males are here to serve Women and the family.
Serving Me... If you are submissive then you should desire to serve. To serve does not mean that I am making a deal to play with you if you serve Me. I do not barter with bottoms. A submissive does not expect anything in return. The honor to serve is the reward.
- I need the small front yard mowed, weeded and perhaps you will have the honor of planting &/or landscaping
- I need the house to be clean
- I need the laundry done
- I always have projects going on
Be honest and tell Me about yourself.