Seeking True servitude, well read on!!!!
Greetings and Salutations to all
About me, I have been a member here for nearly two years, having spent time on Alt and
Bondage and a couple of other sites. They all have their benefits and short comings.
One of the things I have noticed on all of them is the different kinds of
people that put up profiles. There are those who are serious in their requests
of what they seek (and express what they seek very well), playmates, friends,
to long-term relationships, and then there are those who are just playing cyber
games, or looking for a free ride. For me this is my life, I am not here to
judge others for their actions or reasons for being here. I will only speak for
my self, or those who maybe under my care.
For those who call them selves Dominant, Master/Mistress, Top, there is
a responsibility to be honest with your self before you seek to speak with
others of who you are, what you are, and what aspects you seek to explore, and
the experience you have. These aspects need to be taken in account before you
become responsible for another. There are many places to learn from, including
here on this site. There is a wealth of experience with many of these profiles,
and many would be more then willing to answer questions or suggest other links.
One of course must look at any information with a grain of salt; there is no
one way to do things. There is no specific way to train, guide or mold a
submissive/slave, as each is different.
The above term labels are easy to claim, but for those who have yet to live up
to those terms, falseness will be seen through in time. Time is short don't
waste it, be straight forward. I have been called Sir and Master by a good
many, it is a show of respect by calling me so, not because I required it of
them. Just as there is a difference in those terms, there is also a difference
in the terms subbie, submissive, slave, and bottom.
I believe one should know and understand the difference before they accept
whichever label is appropriate.
If you are looking for playtime, or cyber play, you are barking up the wrong
tree here, Move on to the next profile and waste no more of your time.
At this point there is a position for in house
slave, if you are one that knows this is the life they are seeking, with a
deep seated need to serve and follow this path, are reasonably good looking
(height weight proportionate) young in mind (bodies are nice but not required),
and ready to be completely honest and obedient. Understand the proper mindset of
a slave, and will allow them selves to be guided and molded into what is
pleasing. This may be the place for you.
What can be expected of a slave is communication, honesty, humility, humor, loyalty,
obedience, honor, and an open mind with willing spirit. I have very old world values, and favor Asian philosophies. I
have no use for those who believe in the feminist movements or in female
supremacy.
I have been around the D's world for near 20 year now. This includes
founding a D's organization in Akron
Ohio,
(http://www.purplerosesociety.com/About_Us.htm) Throughout this time I have done various seminars, as
well as make furniture and leather gear for our life. I take much pleasure in
creating, furniture, art, writing, and other forms. When I resigned as a board
member of Purple Rose Society, I left them with the pro-dungeon I created. I
look forward to the next space I will be opening. I have been very active
within the community, and think it is important for our growth to do so, no
matter what level one is at.
My passions are not limited to this
lifestyle, there is a wide variety of things I take as much pleasure in,
motorcycles, art galleries, good food, I love the ocean, surfing, volleyball,
and so many other things that life has to offer. So yes, I do take slaves out
in the vanilla world with me. A slave should have their own interests to make
them well rounded.
I am educated, with a BA in Psychology/Sociology, an MBA, and presently working on a
MA in Psychology. I see education as another passion, I live to learn, and not
just about the things that I know I have interest in. This includes studding
people, how they act and react. This of course helps makes me a better
dominate, the ability to see, listen, and understand what is underlining.
Writing is something else I utilize my
time with, presently I am working on three projects, one is a how to manual,
one is a lifestyle book, which I am doing research on for those who may feel
they have some thing to contribute, I am available. This is especially true for
those who have grown up in a lifestyle household. The last project is a Vampire
screenplay based on shows I use to produce.
No, I do not have expectations of a slave
bowing down on bended knee before a computer screen, come on folks reality
check. No cyber geek need apply... What I am looking for is those who wish
to be trained /guided / molded into what is pleasing to me. I have no use for
bedroom bondage sluts. My slave will be utilized as I deem pleasing, hence the
term slave.
Of course, relocation would be in time, (no, not two or three message later). I
have done temporary training, and for the right situation, would consider such.
I have seen many, who claim of their gift of submission, and I will not argue
such, yet it seems they need an eye opener. The Sir they speak to is also
offering a gift, their time, knowledge, care of the slaves' needs, and other
aspects the Dominate is offering their slave, so remember it is a two way
street.
A slave should know that I will be strict, not just in their training, but
through out their service. I will have high expectations of myself as well as
my slave. The bond between and owner and their slave is at the least 80%
mental, with the physical to follow as natural. Race and age are not nearly as
important then a slave’s mindset and desire to be pleasing. All carry an amount
of baggage, but excessive baggage is not welcome nor wanted, nor is those who
thrive on soap operas. As to other things a slave can expect;
you will be used for pleasure,
you will be expected to obey
you will be expected to give over complete control
you will be molded my way
you will be utilized daily
you will follow a protocol
you will be pierced
If this is what you seek, your welcome to send a message, more then a couple lines
asking how will you be used, what kind of life will the slave have, or such
things. Tell me about your self, why you think you would be a good candidate.
Include a photo if there is not one on the profile.
I will respond to all who write. If you are looking for information, be plain
and upfront. If you are into extremes, and seeking like-minded people, feel
free to write.
To all who made it this far- thank you for the respect shown.
Be well
M Starr
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