WHO I AM
I'm a dominant, professional male with an abiding interest in developing
life-long friendships with intelligent, creative people. I'm also an expert at
humiliation scenes, age play, and puppy training, and have often been called
"The Patron Saint of Sodomy" for My skill at anal training of all kinds.
When it comes to BDSM, I'm much more interested in D/s and psychological play
than I am in primarily physical S&M or B&D, although I do incorporate aspects
of both into My scenes. My mind is My biggest sex organ, and needs to be
fully-engaged for Me to achieve sexual or emotional satisfaction.
Also, while it's very hard to sum up one's philosophy about D/s in a few short
sentences, it's worth pointing out that My idea of dominance is about using
force of personality to create form and structure. I believe in defining
boundaries, but also in creating space inside which a relationship can grow
organically--and hopefully flourish.
WHO YOU ARE
Partner(s)
At this point in time, I'm actively seeking a long-term D/s relationship. I'm
especially interested in finding someone open to an eventual 24/7 live-in
arrangement, but am in no particularly hurry.
I want a whole person who brings something of value to the relationship. An
agile mind and a strong sense of self are essential ingredients in creating the
D/s dynamic I seek. In addition, emotional maturity, intelligence, drive,
personal ambition, and a good sense of humor are absolute must-haves. And while
I don't expect perfection, I *do* expect My partner to be height-weight
proportionate and in generally good health.
My ideal partner will also have some of the following qualities, although it's
unrealistic to expect anyone to have all of them:
1. This idealized person identifies as a slave, not as a submissive,
although I'm somewhat flexible about that.
2. She is service-oriented, but shows initiative and isn't looking for
someone to micromanage her.
3. She is emotionally available and sexually receptive, but neither
demanding nor high-maintenance. She understands the need for both personal
space and togetherness.
4. She is organized, methodical, and detail-oriented. She enjoys putting
those skills to use in a variety of ways.
5. Her sense of identity is strengthened by her subordinate role in the
relationship, but she is not subsumed by it.
6. She enjoys the role of social director. Maintaining ties with family and
friends is an important part of her job.
7. She is actively seeking a partnership, albeit one based on power
exchange and a pervasive D/s dynamic.
8. She is unafraid to show her intelligence and creativity openly, and to
take pride in her accomplishments. She trusts Me to take pride in her when
she shines.
If you have at least some of these ideal qualities, or have other attractive
traits which you think might interest Me but that I didn't mention, by all
means contact Me. I'm always willing to explore different dynamics.
Friends
I'm always looking for kink-friendly people who want to do fun stuff outside of
the BDSM scene: restauranteering, playing board/card games, watching movies, or
just hanging out.
Because of My strong personality, I've always found that I form friendships
most easily with submissive people. You don't have to be *My* submissive to
make a good friend; you just have to accept My natural tendency to be the alpha
in any relationship.
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