Well we have been here a while now and we feel its time for a bit of a rewrite. We have discussed what we are looking for and feel we may have been giving the wrong impression about us and what we are looking for.
We are seeking a slave for a lifestyle relationship we have no interest in playing either online or in a casual relationship, and until we are in a relationship we ask nothing more of anyone other than a little common courtesy.
In terms of the relationship you would be expected to maintain the house cook clean etc and also be used in any other way we desire be this sexual or S&M related.
I like to think we are very open minded, and as we are looking for this to be a long term relationship we aim to find someone who is open to discussing what they seek from such a relationship. Now this is where I feel we have been giving the wrong impression about us. We have no problem with being strict or sadistic or inflicting humiliation and degradation, we just want to be sure this is the type of relationship wanted and you fully understands what this means for you.
We have lived in a D/s relationship before and know from experience its not going to be micro management 24/7 at the end of the day who is serving who. Neither are we looking for a doormat. Ideally the person we want we be able to go about their tasks on a daily basis, once instructed on how things are to be done. Spot things that need doing before being told and do them weather this be simply dusting a shelf or making a cup of coffee. Leaving us mentally relaxed for more intense D/s yet able to accept that some evenings we may just want to chill out with a film and a take away for a couple of hours.
