Tal and greetings,
I am a dominant male interested in the Gorean philos, based upon the fictional series of books, known as the Gor series, authored by John Norman aka Dr. John Lange. I have been involved with the online and offline lifestyle for over six years. I actively participate in chat and gatherings.
While I wouldn't classify myself as simply BDSM, as such merely describes activities and not a philosophy, I do not place a value judgement upon those who seek to enrich their lives by a methodology outside of Gorean traditions. Quite simply, I believe in the concept of natural order. I do not negotiate the role of a slave. Such roles should be apparent to those who are participating in this lifestyle. The duties of a kajira are quite simple: "Absolute obedience and exquisite beauty". While beauty is infact defined by the beholder, the simple fact is that each determines what is pleasing. It is encumbent upon the slave or kajira to strive to fullfil these duties.
I tend to speak my mind. I am less than tolerant of players and posers. Understand my purpose:
My pleasure.
Any subsequent pleasure derived by anyone else is secondary to my own.
Do not confuse kindness with weakness nor compassion with stupidity, for if you do, you shall find yourself woefully beyond your depth.
For those who embrace the Gorean philos, you will understand my meaning when I say that I wish you well and enough this day.
Troi
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