Update JAN.2009: I am soon to be "legally single"

Update JAN.2009: I am soon to be "legally single" once more after 15 years of marriage to a wonderful woman.

SO HAPPY NEW YEAR TO EVERYONE.

The truth never changes, but lies most always do...

I have found that many people online are not always truthful about themselves, so let me start by being honest about myself: I am a straight, but kinky guy with a dominant personality. I'm young at heart and an overall loveable type of guy, at least for the most part :-)

I am an active participant in our local BDSM scene here in ABQ, and some of the people within it have become like family to me!

I've traveled around the world for two years during my mid-twenties, so my zest for adventure is a given. This grand journey of mine helped shape me into who I am today. It certainly opened my mind to see and appreciate life as the gift that it is. I am vibrant & outgoing and I share my joy's with those I've chosen to be a part of my life. I love experimenting and exploring, as it promotes learning and inner growth, but it also exercises the wicked and twisted mind at certain times ;-) One can never have too much fun...

As you may have figured out by now, I am very much a people person, so I welcome new friendships at any time, be they of the kinky or vanilla type, as I am always interested in learning new things about others. In return, please feel free to ask anything you want to know about me, and I will answer it in due time...

Ich spreche auch fliessend Deutsch falls es mit dem Englischen etwas happern sollte. Denn fragen kostet ja bekanntlicherweise nichts?

I am interested in meeting an attractive female who is also interested in exploring a kinky D/s relationship. But I also have a regular life besides my kinky one, and I would prefer for this woman to be open to (eventually) become my lover and life partner, so that we can share any and all of these precious moments in our life's together.

I am definitely drawn to physically & mentally attractive woman. An open mind, -sound spirit and -mutual chemistry are definite musts.

I'm at a point in my life where I no longer am interested in quick first encounters, or simple one-nighters with a stranger. I's prefer to get to know someone before anything else. If you did like what you've read here so far, then please feel free to drop me a line & introduce yourself, or perhaps ask additional questions. Oh, and please include a picture or two...