Here there be Monsters! I was raised Methodis

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Stephann

Male Dominant, 31, North Hollywood, California

Here there be Monsters! I was raised Methodist. I remember being six... and asking the minister... "why is it so important to go to heaven?" He tells me "well, in heaven the streets are paved with gold." Me being six, I said "so what?" Him being 40, he didn't have an answer. Have just moved to Los Angeles and I'm interested in meeting new people here. I'm a dominant man, a musician, former Marine, and I've recently returned to the US after living 3 years abroad in Santiago, Chile. I've also lived in Japan for 3 years and I love to travel. I play saxophone and guitar, and I'm mostly interested in blues and rock. I have a slave (charlotteS here on CM), and we enjoy making and playing with friends, and attending fetish events and dungeons with others in the LA area. We're open to friendship with men, women, couples, etc. I have been involved in the lifestyle now about 10 years. I prefer total power exchange relationships, but I find the person and chemistry matter a great deal more than the form. I like the intimate exchange involved in D/s, intensifying a healthy, loving relationship. I work hard, play hard, and love hard. I don't live to work, and prefer the simpler things in life. I would take a home cooked Bar B Que meal at home or on the beach, over the finest tiny portion Filet Mignon in a five star restaurant . I love to laugh. I love to see my friends happy. I love a good book, or a great discussion. There's no topic I find taboo, and few topics that I have any sort of typical position. I'm especially fond of discussing interpersonal relationships, religion, politics (regional or world), or philosophy. My first attempt at college was a miserable failure. I don't pretend to be brighter than you, but I probably am. I really enjoy reading Faulkner, Poe, Uris, Michener, but enjoy relaxing with Clive Barker, Grisham, or potatoandonion (google it, on the lardfork server; it's well worth the read.) I'm an extremely intense person. This bothers most people, and that's fine with me. I post on the CM forums a lot. You should too; it's the best feature of this site. Anything else, feel free to ask. Oh, and I love jokes. If you really want my attention, share a favorite when you write (though if you can't think of one, no worries, a polite hello is more than enough.) Stephan

10/19/2008 9:01:47 PM: This one goes out to DEATHADDER1965 here on collarme! Well sweet little sistas high in hell cheatn on a haloGrind in a odyssey holocaust heart kick on tomorrowBreakdownAgony said ecstasy in overdrive she come a riding on the worldThunder kissn 1965Yeah, wow! five, yeah, wow!!Demon-warp is coming alive in 1965Five, five, yeah!Livin fast and dying young like a endless poetryMy motor-psycho nightmare freak out inside of meMy soul salvation liberation on the driveThe power of the blaster move me faster 1965Yeah, wow! five, yeah, wow!!Demon-warp is coming alive in 1965Five, five, yeah!Gimme that, gimme that now, now, now, yeah!Rolln like a supersonic another fool that gets down on itPig sweat a million miles, I got a heart atomic styleI make it look easy, thats what I saidBlast of silence explodes in my headYeah, yeah, yeah, gimme that, gimme that nowStep to the moonshine frenzy hail: the resurrectionWhats new pussycat, can you dig the satisfactionWell, you cant take it with you, but you can! in overdriveYeah! some like it hot and twistn, 1965Yeah, wow! five, yeah, wow!!Demon-warp is coming alive in 1965Five, five _______________________________ 10/15/2008 8:56:32 PM: Wow... I couldn't have imagined it happening, but my slave's work on kink.com landed her a spot right here on collarme:collarme.com/affiliate/photos/trainingofo/5341_p_22.jpgWho'd have guessed? _______________________________ 6/16/2008 1:59:56 PM: Das Bunker tonight!!!!! Lair de Sade tomorrow night :) Ahhhhh I love LAOh, and we finally move next weekend. Seems like it's been forever in coming! We'll be near Burbank, for Enquiring Minds. _______________________________ 5/6/2008 12:23:08 PM: New photos of me and the kitties :) _______________________________ 4/17/2008 9:15:58 PM: So, after an amazing weekend in the desert with the slave, a few things have crystallized. A few weeks ago, a song by Lynyrd Skynyrd came on that I love, called Simple Man. The slave was driving, and in a cranky mood, so I grabbed her bear, Fitzwilliam (whom you may have seen featured in photos on both of our profiles) and I let him air guitar, to the lyrics "Fitzy be a simple.... kind of bear!!! Oh be someone you love and understand...."That's what matters most to us; being simple kind of bears.