OK...so, we have been on this site for a while (lo

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ReizvollePaar

Dom/Domme Couple, 41/21, Atlanta, Georgia

OK...so, we have been on this site for a while (longer than we like to admit) and have been talking a lot lately about ourselves, our relationship, our goals, our household and what we want to do with all that and the bag of chips we never seem to get to the bottom of.After long intro- and extro- spection together and separately, we have come to the conclusion that the blank box at the top of our profile is not serving any good purpose and we think it is high time to put something here.We decided against the 'we are a happily married couple' stuff and the usual 'we are this tall and he is THIS big' is covered in the rest of the auto-form so, what to do? What to say? WTF?In the past year, we have gotten over 150 e-mails from all over the country and around the world from every possible sort of person asking and offers just about everything you can imaging...none of them are here beside us now and, as that is our ultimate goal, this is what we want to say:YES, we are looking for a bisexual, natural born, female for real life meetings and play.YES, she can be a sub, slave, bottom or just curious about the whole thing (or maybe just not into labels).YES, we do expect a clear, recent face and body pic (does not have to be nude) so we can get a look at who is applying for a place at our feet.YES, we are talking about real life, face to face, meetings, play, dates, fun and games in and out of the bedroom.YES, we are open to one night stands, short term training, intense skills building, no strings service (both sexual and domestic) and even the possibility of making a permanent place in our household for one very special girl.NO-NO-NO-NO-NO! We are NOT interested in getting to know you with 100 rounds of e-mail tag, the concept of online romance is kind of boring in our opinion and cyber-sex is the lamest thing we have ever heard of. As to anything else virtual, well, we think you get the point.So, with that said and knowing it will piss off or scare off about 99.9% of the people who are able to read this far, we will bring this to a close and wait and see what will come of it all.If you think you are what we seek and want the chance to prove it, feel free to write and tell us more about the girl behind the screen; if there is anything else you want to know or something specific you want to ask, feel free to write and let the adventure begin!If you write, be ready to meet. We will read your letter and probably reply with our cell number and ask that you call us to arrange a meeting/interview/date. If you are afraid to dial the phone and can't get a friend to push the buttons for you, we are not the couple you seek. If you need time to think about it or discuss it with your therapist, best friend, current husband or personal savior, we are not the couple you seek. If you think this might be right for you but want to do a bit more online research, check the forums, try a little online play and start a myspace community, save the letter you cant wait to send us and send it when you have had your fill of the virtual and are ready for something truly visceral.We hope this cuts down on the nonsense letters we are getting from men, boys, bois, tv/ts/tg/cd, dykes, dommes and other assorted folks who might be truly wonderful and important people in their own minds but are simply of no interest whatsoever to either of us.If this sounds rude, arrogant or otherwise unacceptable to you, take a deep breath and get over it by moving on to the next profile.We truly hope that 'she' is out there and still believe 'she' might be. That is the only reason this profile is still here and we are still looking for that one special girl who reads between these lines and writes loud enough to be heard through the screen.Until then, I remain...

11/23/2008 7:51:11 PM: Darling Lady Hope now has auburn hair! For those who know and love her as a blonde, well, you will either have to take my word for it that she is just as hot now or find out for yourself. Be sure to have a look at the profile before you write. _______________________________ 7/19/2008 11:50:44 PM: We have dont a bit of soul searching lately and decided that what we really want is one girl to call our own. We have tried the casual play thing with several great girls (a few from this site - you know who you are - lol) and we had fun but, after they left we both felt...well...bummed and wished they had stayed for 'just a little longer', always knowing that what we really meant was 'wish they had stayed'. We love each other, our lives and our lifestyle; we enjoy all sorts of things together and separately; we have interests, activities and friends in and out of the lifestyle. To put it simply, our life rocks!Now, after seeing that we enjoy play but want more, we have decided to make it official and let everyone know we have a place in our home and our household for one special girl. We dont mind hearing from those who are curious and we love answering questions for newbies but, please, if you choose to write to us, be serious about your decision and be ready to act on it. We dont mind an e-mail or two to break the ice but we really dont keep up with online friends and will want to move to a phone conversation as quickly as possible. I am sure half the members of this site will want to send their own personal success stories of those they 'met' online and 'knew' for years and years but, honestly, it just isnt for us. Nothing against those who enjoy typing their hearts out but, well, I wear mine on my sleeve and it gets stuck in the keys.So, there you go CM world...the offer is out there, the door is open and the spare room is cleaned out and freshly painted (OK, I did that part for fun before we made this decision but, hey, its a perk).We are willing to interview those girls who want to be part of our household on a 24/7 basis. You can be her slave, his slave or belong to both equally. You can be strait, bisexual, curious or just flexable. You will have chores and responsibilites. You can have a job and/or go to school. You are allowed to have friends outside our circle and will be encouraged to follow your dreams. We will support and care for you as a prized possession and member of our family. Just be honest and up front with your needs as well as what you have to offer and we will go from there.OK, that's it for now...more later. _______________________________ 5/8/2008 6:19:28 PM: OK, so really now...what does it take to make a point? By being on this site, we assume that those who we write or who write to us can at least read; we also assumed that, being able to read and deciding to write to a dominant couple, they would have taken 5 minutes to read our profile. That is why we spelled everything out so clearly there about not want males of any sort, for any reason, about wanting only girls how are local and ready to meet in person, about not having the time for or interest in long rounds of e-mail tag and on and on and yada, yada, yada. It is all there, spelled correctly and written on an 8th grade level.Still we get letters, long and short, from every possible kind of wrong who can possibly write (ooh...that was a particularly clever turn of phrase, I think). I guess that will teach us to assume because, as we all know, when you assume, you make an ass of 'u' in front of 'me'.And so it continues; spring returns to fill our hearts with thoughts of love...OK...you got me, it is Spring but it aint our 'hearts' that are throbbing and 'love' doesnt even make the top 3 on our mutual lists of current feelings.So, really now sweetheart, are you out there? Anywhere? If so, this would be the exactly perfect freakin time for you to break your silence and slip out of the void and onto your knees. Of course, if you dont exist at all, well, then I guess I am just writing this to myself.Well, I guess I'm good like that... _______________________________ 8/30/2007 2:37:17 PM: Today my Master, Husband, Lover, Best Friend, and Confidant turned one year older. From the bottom of my heart I just wanted to say thank you Sir for always being there for me and loving me continually... through it all. You are my heart... Thank you so very much for being born!!! You are everything I could ever ask for in a man and in a friend. I love you. Y,T,T, & F -me _______________________________ 8/21/2007 11:54:43 AM: We are so freakin tired of the games people play on this site and the net in general. If you write us, be ready to talk on the phone and meet in the near future. We are NOT interested in IM chat, e-mail tag or long periods of silence between one line replies.It is totally fine to write and comment on our profile or our pics or ask a question but, PLEASE, do not write claiming to be a 'real slave' and begging to be owned unless you actually know what that means and want to explore the possibility.(Note to Self: Do not do journal updates when you are tired and angry - you are too honest and scare the straits)