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Albatross1980

Male Dominant, 28, Port Jefferson, New York

We are unique. Every one of us.That is the most interesting part of this lifestyle. Isn't it?Who are you? Are you new? Are you shy, jaded, uncertain, or have you just lost faith in the people you meet here? Come talk to me.I believe that my role as a Dominant is to care for those around me without expectation. A Dominant should not need a return. He or she should only need the understanding that they are in the position to control a situation and bend it to suit the good of those depending on that Dominant. This is my definition and I would not assume to force it on others. A submissive, on the other hand, gives a Dominant something to protect. A sub recognizes the benefit received and strives to return the love and trust in his or her own way. Now these gentile definitions do not rule out the possibilities of great sadistic and masochistic behavior. They only rule out the sickness within those who enter this lifestyle out of hate or other internal illnesses that breed anger or abuse. I love knowing why people get into this lifestyle and what they are looking for. Stories like that are so very interesting to me. I am here to chat, meet people, and develop personal relationships. I have an amazingly superior partner and I am not looking to replace her in any way, just so you know. I do encourage you to strike up a conversation with me. I have much experience with BDSM,although you may easily have more, from a 1on1 D/s frame of reference.Please remember to always interact with others out of love and kindness, weather it is with a kiss or a whip.

6/9/2008 11:05:34 AM: This is to everyone out there ...Get over generlizations! Stop worrowing about age and worry about maturity and mental health!Stop worrowing about titles and focus on an actual connection!Stop assumeing that subs are sluts and Doms are assholes!Please start to think! Use your damn brains and figure out why you are really here, and if it is really healthy for you (that should take care of most the folks here).If you think there is a right or wrong way to live a D/s lifestyle you really need to get off the internet and experience the world. _______________________________ 3/1/2008 10:26:57 AM: Just so everyone knows ... I recently shaved off the gote. We wil see if it stays this way.