" My name is Elizabeth, I'm a ‘lifestyle’ Dominant with a sometimes fun, other times n..."

My name is Elizabeth,
I'm a ‘lifestyle’ Dominant with a sometimes fun, other times nasty/sadistic streak….
I am not new to any of this.
I’ve been known to be a real bitch (like that’s a bad thing), but I’m also a really nice person *evil grin*
I tend to be a perfectionist.
I know what I want and I get it...no one/nothing stands in My way once I put My mind to something.
I am Dominant by 'upbringing' but very much enjoy dabbling with the sadistic bitch within when given the opportunity (by a consenting masochist, of course, heheh).
I am a realist. I am also a teacher by profession. I am kinky. I am a far cry from your typical 38 year old female.
To know Me is to love or hate Me...and I could care less which one you choose.

I am happily married…been with the man for nearly 20 years now and I do not intend on anything/anyone changing that. He knows everything that I do, there are no secrets between us.
He is not a ‘Dominant’ nor My ‘submissive/slave’. He is not an active participant in what I do, but supports Me and understands My ‘need’ to do what it is I do.
He is old fashioned, in a way. He opens My doors, lights My cigarettes (when I choose to smoke), and gives the most amazing bubble baths. I do not ask him to do these ‘things’ for Me, he just does them because he likes to watch Me smile. I enjoy being spoiled by him in his own ways.
I have no need for any type of ‘sex slave’…for he is My whore in the bedroom. One is plenty, I’m happy, do NOT ask to be the second....I WILL block you. If anyone has access to between My thighs, it's him and him only.
He is My guard dog.
Typically I ‘hold My own’, but it IS nice knowing he’s there, if needed.
If you think you would ever be a ‘part’ of My life, in one fashion or another, be prepared to get to know My husband, Shay, as well.
There are no exceptions to this.

I do not have children, I own a house…..
many people envy the fact that I can live My life as openly as I do.
I am a huge defender of both children and animals, so don’t ever ‘go there’ with Me.
I am not made of money but I love everything I own….humans included.
I no longer have blonde hair like in the photos, although I assure you the photos ARE of Me…
I keep those posted to ‘weed out’ people who can/cannot read profiles. My hair color is now a very dark brown/black…My eyes are green. Be prepared for Me to ask you what I look like if you write to Me. Fail and I will delete/block your sorry ass.

I have many acquaintances and very few true friends in life….both vanilla and within this lifestyle.
I’d bleed for My friends but the ‘acquaintances will have to wait in line for My time. I have priorities in life, and certain people fit into these categories as well.



I’ve been asked why I’m here, on collarme.
I can happily testify that I’ve met almost everyone presently in My kinky life, here on this site.
Collarme DOES work…has for Me anyway…so I will continue to use it for what it’s worth. SOOOO…with that said, this is what I’m presently looking for:

~Service orientated, DOMESTIC house submissive (someone who can clean…I mean REALLY CLEAN, not just dust) at least once a week.

~A fitness freak/house submissive to work out with...although most would say I don't need to work out (yeah, I have a smokin' bod, heheh), but it's just more FUN having someone to do it with! Experience is a plus, do not apply if you are not healthy yourself.

Filling any of these positions has it's 'advantages'.
MEANING: you do not PAY for time spent with Me, and you will be 'rewarded' for your services rendered. 
I will explain more upon our face to face meeting.

So you still wanna 'play' with Me but cannot/do not see yourself fitting into any of the above categories...guess what....you will have to pay. I do NOT consider Myself a pro Domme, however, why would I , should I cater to your list of wants/needs  to get nothing in return other than a sore shoulder, loss of time I could be doing something for MYSELF, and a huge mess to clean up?
Not gonna happen...go cry somewhere else, I won't listen to your shit.
SOOOO...either pick a category from above or you WILL pay Me unless I say otherwise!

Oh…and this goes for anyone who wishes to cam for Me as well. In other words, I’m NOT interested! If you do not live relatively close by, don’t waste My time either…it’s pointless. 
 
*A NOTE:  I did not include strap on play in My list of likes and dislikes so I will educate you on how I feel about it  RIGHT NOW. 
Forced sucking=yes, with pleasure
Will I fuck your ass with one=not while I'm married, no
Will I use them on FEMALES=perhaps, depends on the female.
I tell you this because so many people are curious.  Now you know so stop fucking asking Me!  It's gets boring having to repeat Myself all the damn time.

If you have questions, ask…I suggest you think about what you want and what you type BEFORE hitting the send button. I loath ignorance and am not the most patient person in the world with strangers.


If you would like to meet Me in person, keep an eye on My journal entries for an 'opportunity' to do so.
I do attend a local (Rockford) munch the first Saturday of every month.  If you are interested in attending to meet Me and others, let Me know NO LATER than the Friday before the munch so that not only can I rsvp for you but expect you and give you instructions as well.
Very rarely will I invite anyone into My home without meeting them in public first...been there, done that, enough said.

Good luck in your search, if it does not end here.