David here...
I have years of experience in the Lifestyle, which has been primarily that of personal growth ( read: Maturity ) and education. I always try to learn from my mistakes.
I am a patient, somewhat demented but ( arguably ) sane individual with a love of discovering the limits and needs of another and using those not only as a backbone for that other's contentment, but as a focus for my own.
I have personal rules. I never take on or do to another more then I can take. I believe submission is not another word for doormat. If a woman cannot stimulate my mind, she cannot stimulate me at all. A willing behind is an excellent thing to spank. Spare the flogger, bore the submissive. I am going to cut this short before I write a novel.
I am a serious participant in the Ds / Sm Lifestyle. And within the Lifestyle my tastes are actually rather tame. I am best described as a "Sensual Sadist" ( My experience in Sadism is not too "Hardcore" ). Although I am open minded, I have My list of No Ways and Hard Limits; but if it works for My partner and isn't on that list, I can take part even though it may not "do it" for me
I have more to share and alot to give. I am proud to say I am not deseperate. Frankly, I actually have far better lucky with developing a relationship with vanilla women. But those relationships just have never worked out. So, I won't kid Myself and say one will. I need a woman who can be kinky, loving, nasty, bitchy, sweet and tolerate a stuborn, intense, kinky bastard.
I need dental work ( hockey player here ) and I am not as active socially or economically as I would like. I returned from Florida in Febuary of 07 and life has been a bit of hell for most of it. But I have grown because of it, day by day.
Actually got this far? Amazing.
What am I looking for?
*I am not looking for a piece of ass or to "put out".
*I am not looking for a free ride or to give one.
*I am not perfect and don't expect others to be.
*I like to cuddle.
*I find those who have what they call "serious" flaws are capable of magnificent things.
Feel free to contact Me with questions. If a couple, make sure your partner is aware your messaging Me.
I will leave the rest for our first conversation/s.
Contact me. I Bite.
