**Added: I have been asked why I don't have a pi

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SiriusWhite

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Michigan

5'8"

167 lbs

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Caucasian

12/22/08

**Added: I have been asked why I don't have a picture. I work for a very large and very conservative company. To protect my identity and my job, I do not post a picture but I do have some pictures that I am more than willing to share if requested.**In reading about Dominance and submission, I am amazed at how little Dominants seem to care about the fit of their partner. How many choose to ignore their responsibilities to protect, nurture, guide, and strengthen.It is my view, and my practice, to find someone that completes me. One that can give herself to my guiding hands. I am not a Dominant that will grab a woman and force her to her knees. I am the type that will live my life in my way, lead from the front of the battle lines, hold out my hands for her, and let her lay her head in them.Strength, true inner strength, is gift I give to one that serves me. I am strict, but fair. I value the input the other will give, will take their counsel in all that I do, but in the end I expect the decisions I make to be followed to the best of their ability.Also, I am a father of a 9 year old son. He will always come first with me. I am an active part of his life even though he doesn't live with me. My children (and yours if you have them) will always come first. You need to accept that because it will not change with me. I will NOT be an absentee father.

10/24/2008 5:27:37 PM: I went to the Detroit Erotica Ball last weekend. Overall, it was very enjoyable. I wish I would have gone with someone instead of alone, but at least I knew a few people there. It was a good place to embrace my inner voyeur as well as see some different vendors. They had a few fashion shows that ranged from models that looked like they were wearing my grandma's nit doilies and fingerpainted by four year olds to a great show by Ivy's Custom Corsetry. The music ranged from poor amateurish productions to a pretty good band. Having worked in theater for a few years I tend to nit-pick productions and this one was lacking in areas. Still, watching some of the things going on made the trip worthwhile. I will probably go again next year. It was worth the $10 advanced ticket price. _______________________________ 2/4/2008 3:07:03 PM: If you are looking for someone for a one night stand, I understand but ask you to keep looking. To Me, sex and sexuality are an expression of how I feel inside. It is the physical expression of the emotion created by the spiritual connection. If any of those pieces are missing, I don't want to share that kind of intimacy. It is too important to Me to just throw about like extra pennies in My pocket.I do have friends with whom I can play if needed and I am not against non-sexual BDSM play. My issue is with giving away intimacy. If I were to just throw it about, what would it mean when I was truly with a loving submissive? What value would it be with her? I respect the thought, hope, and dream of the right woman too much to disrespect "her" in that way.Also, don't get Me wrong... I have a very, very high libido. Very high.Sirius _______________________________ 10/7/2007 1:15:55 PM: I have been asked several times why I don't show a picture here. It is due to my position at a large and very conservative company. They would frown on my participation here and within the lifestyle. I do have pictures that I can (and will) send in time. During the interum, know that I am considered good looking by most women. I have blue eyes that are known to change color and short, light brown hair.I am not a model, nor am I a body builder, but no one has ever been embarassed to be on my arm. _______________________________ 5/24/2007 4:14:20 PM: Dominant and submissive, opposite sides of the same coin. Without one, the other is lost. It is a sharing, a mutual balance.In my ideal world, a woman would love me with such depth and passion that she would give up her self and only live for me. My every need, concern, and want becomes her driving force. She would never worry about herself and focus completely on me. Her only guiding thought would be "would Master like me to do this?"In return, I would finally be free to stop worrying about my own needs. I could focus on "us". Each decision I would have to consider how this would affect her, how her feelings and well being could be influenced. Every thought I had must be "how will this affect the one that serves me?" If she is defenseless to me, open to me, surrendering to me... I must consider her in all things.This gives a perfect balance. A symbiosis that makes two people so much more than they are by themselves. When Dominance and submission are bound together, tempered by love and passion, it creates a force stronger than any other made by man. It is a steel that can cut through deception, pain, and solitude... until only truth, love, and peace remain.Somewhere out there is a woman who will give to me all of herself in that deep submission. She will know that she will be safe under my hand. Protected with my life... and on her knees she will find peace knowing that she is finally where she belongs. Valued. Prized. Cherished. Owned. Loved.Sirius