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LeashedKitty

Female Submissive, 40, Calgary, Canada

Submissive seeks Dominant male, for ongoing real time, real life M/s D/s relationship. My BDSM is SEXUAL... but NOT all about sex. Seek to serve and please in M/s and D/s dynamic. I am not looking for a quick fix, or a quick "lay", thank You anyway. Ideally, I am still after a committed long term relationship. We both know that it takes time to know one another and build that. The journey is still wonderful, and I can embark on it with a "see what happnes" mentality. I am open to considering CLOSED poly, or negotiated poly in the right relationship, with the right person(s). I am very real, I am very serious. In the last fw years, I have learned that I can endure and enjoy things I never thought possible in this Lifestyle. I have participated in scenes that some would consider "edgy". I have also learned that I am not primarily a masochist. (Although I have been accused of being a pain slut) If You are an extreme sadist, I'm not Your girl. I do crave intensity in all things. I enjoy impact play immensely: nothing beats a good hard flogging. I love spankings, paddles, slaps, pinches, all kinds of play - and I enjoy seeing the marks play leaves on my body as well... This stems from an "ownership" and "control" and "submissive" need, rather than a truly masochistic one. Do You know the difference? I am not overly jaded or cynical. I am positive and upbeat. I believe in potential, and chemistry and the power of a relationship built on TRUST. I am very submissive under the right circumstances, but this quote, from a friend, suites me very well also: Quoted with permission from Max Faust: in one of His many incarnations :D "Please don't try to convince me that I should be anybody else than who and what I am, because there are plenty of those who actually ARE someone else, and who won't have to pretend to not be me. Go play with those instead if you aren't ready for me."I am always looking for friends in the lifestyle. I am open and honest, and will answer respectful questions without hesitation for both new friends and inquiring Dominants. Interested? ... flirty, playful, sometimes sarcastic sense of humour enlcosed.

9/21/2008 10:37:40 AM: Sir's KissI hear You calling to me through the open windowand I follow... Your call is irresitable to me.The 3 seater swing has Your attentionand I perch on it in Your full view.I feel Your first gentle kisses on my skinas You urge me into reclining across the cushionsYour touch is warmsoothingI close my eyes and relax into Your moodclothing is pushed aside more skin exposedI stretch my arms languidly over my head move one leg up onto the back of the swingand the other dangles offOpen to You Siras You touch more and more of mewith Your kissI lay there,I know not how longwith Your touch warming my skinWill You leave Your mark upon me today?Your touch is so much gentler these daysthan in past monthsa memory of Your fireand painful red weltsshudders through metoday Your touch has less forceYour marks, if they showwill be much gentlerwe both know thatsoon You will be distantwill touch me only in my memoryand it will be many months beforeI bask in Your touch againbefore your strength marks my skin and leaves me burning in Your embraceWe have so few days leftI do not know which one will be our lastYour touch has me tingling, writhing,baskingsoaking up every available caress Your touch has gentled soit feels melancholyI can hope that Sir will miss me tooI long for Your full returnYour full strengthYour burning passionYour dangerSweet, sweet Sir SUNcome back to me soon.