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eXotiKKitten

Female Switch, 19, California

If you send a friend request without trying to talk to me first, you'll never get the chance. I've been in a D/s relationship, but I'm still somewhat new to the lifestyle. So I'd enjoy making friends with other female submissives. I'm college educated and rather independent, but I would eventually like to join a poly family; preferably one with Doms and subs of both sexes. Yes, this rules out triads - I find them to be unbalanced. Pictures are welcome, but no one liners. So instead of saying something meaningless, tell me your biggest fantasy and how I might participate. I get a lot of mail, so if you don't include a picture, say very little in your message, or have a thin profile, you'll get lost in the crowd. -Kyra

11/5/2008 6:13:22 AM: It seems really stupid that the new day starts in the middle of the night, and the new year starts in the middle of the winter. Each day should begin at 6am (sunrise) and each year should start on the first day of spring. _______________________________ 10/22/2008 12:13:12 AM: Am I the only one that is amused by the fact that there are more dominant women and more submissive men in the UK, which is arguably a matriarchal society. _______________________________ 10/14/2008 1:07:58 PM: Sasha Grey actually broke through the barrier from porn to legitimate film. Well known for her roles in kink.com shoots, the 20yo was recently cast as the lead in the film "The Girlfriend Experience." _______________________________ 9/29/2008 7:06:23 PM: We do not try to avoid conflict - we create it. We do not try to balance power - we distort it. We do not allow fear to deter us - we embrace it. We say and do that which would shatter any other relationship, and yet we are closer because of it.