| Hello all. I'm still pretty new into this lifestyle, but it's intrigued me for about 2 years now, and now that I'm legally able to explore it more, I intend to.
As of now, I'm just looking for likeminded friends to talk to and learn from, but the chances of an interesting connection are never ruled out. I find I'm more submissive than dominant but I'm sometimes willing to flip the script. ^_^
Ya know what's funny? All this introduction and its just my vanilla side I've told of. Well as far as my submissive side goes, if one more dominant than I can manage to earn and gain my submissiveness, then I would be willing to do almost anything asked of me. I have a uncharted masochystic streak in me that, with the right master, I would like to explore. I take orders pretty well initially, but if I learn that my dominant isn't as dominant as they'd like to believe I may flip the switch and demonstrate my way of domination. Though if I do take a liking to my dom, then I'd be more than happy to do their bidding, be it running a bath or even helping them relax in any way. I believe that if a dom is truly capable of owning me, in every sense and responsibility of the word, then I as his submissive, owe him happiness.
As a dominant though, I'm more teasing. A temptress if you will. If one could stand strong against my teasing then a reward is awarded, though if one fails to show restraint a punishment must be delivered. What that punishment is depends on who I am dominating. Each person is different and has different likes that can be used against them. :D
I'm a part-time worker with a full-time schedule so getting online often is not easy for me. Especially since I like to go out and about on my days off. I don't necessarilly crossdress, but I do find baggy jeans and loose t-shirts more comfortible than tight jeans. I am a bit of a tomboy, but if that's not a problem you can drop a line if you're interested and we can chat.
Hmm, a bit about me... I am black and German mix, though people tell me I can pass for nearly any race, so I usually tell people I'm multinational.  I have a weak spot for Asians, and even more so for men with long hair, but I'm not limited to talking with long haired Asians. ^_^ If I think you may be interesting, I'll hit ya back, or hit ya up. Whichever happens first. Also, I'll hopefully be getting more pictures of me up soon!
Also, I'm only interested in people somewhere *close* to my age. 29 is my cut off age. I'm not into the daddy stuff, so no older guys.
Although I will get to talking to people about bdsm, if you are really interested in making a deeper connection with me, getting to know my vanilla side is a way to go. Why? I believe that by knowing one in their every-day life and coming to be close with that schedule opens up for a much deeper link to the bdsm world. Plus it makes it that much more easier to punish or pleasure. ^_^ I'm not going to give you guys any hints into my vanilla world, if you're really interested the conversations we have may reveal more about me than I would put here.
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