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DragonLady1971 |
Female Dominant, 37, Longmont, Colorado
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Addendum:
I am currently seeking a bottom for heavy play. My areas of expertise involve but are not limited to needles, whipping, caning, flogging, paddling, clawing, quirts, cling wrap etc. This will be done in a local dungeon club where I am a member. This will afford you the opportunity to talk to people who know me so that any concerns you have about me being safe, sane and consensual can be laid to rest. You will also be able to speak to my collared partner.
A few things up front:
1: This will NOT be a sexual relationship. I have my life partner, we are not poly.
2: Out of respect for the relationship him and I have, all play will be at the club.
3: If I chose to share your flesh with another Domina, then it shall be. This will be part of the negotiations between you and I. There are a few I would trust to come into a scene of ours so expect it.
4: I don’t play games. I am who I say I am. I’m upfront, I’m honest and I expect you to be as well.
5: I am not a pro. I don’t expect nor do I want tributes. I live this life because it is who I am and it’s my passion.
6: Since I am mainly seeking a bottom, service is not of any great importance. However, if you find that I have earned that form of respect, we can negotiate it.
7: I will not reply to mail from out of state or "I'll be in Denver for the weekend, wanna play?" You must live here and be available on Saturday nights. Possibly some Fridays. I have to get to know a person before I will entertain the thought of playing with them.
If this interests you, continue reading to know more about me.
I am an amiable Dragon
I have no wish to scare
Do not tremble at My presence
Nor ignore My lethal stare
Do not fret about the fire
I unleash into the air
You are free to pass unchallenged
But only if you dare!
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I am a very complex Domina/Mistress. I have many facets. If you are wondering why I say both, here is My reasoning. To me, one can be a Dominant without being Sadistic. I see Dominating as the controlling side, Mistress as the Sadistic side. I am compassionate, Sadistic, firm yet fair and controlling. I do not believe in punishment for the sake of punishing. Punishment will be swift and befitting the infraction. I respect limits and would only push them if discussed. I take my time getting to know people. I believe that by rushing you lose more than you gain. Negotiation and communication along with trust and respect are the keys to a successful D.M/s relationship. Your physical and mental safety come first to Me. I follow the Wiccan mantra of: do as thou will but harm ye none. This is my human aspect.
If you seek abuse, then look elsewhere. I do not get any joy out of it. My joy derives from bringing you to that space in your head. Where the pain becomes pleasure. The agony orgasmic. You and your flesh become one and nothing else matters. That is my Mistress aspect.
You submission is a gift to be cherished, to be treasured. Never to be taken for granted. Your spirit should never and will never be broken by me. If I
want a doormat, I will go to Walmart. You are human before you are a sub/slave or masochist. You have needs, you have feelings, you have concerns. They should always come first. I believe firmly in allowing one to voice any issues. In a respectful manner of course. That is my Dominant aspect.
I believe in honor, courtesy, loyalty, honesty, trust and respect. I believe that these are not given but
earned. I expect to earn yours as you should expect to earn mine. As was said in Scarface: "All I have in this world is balls and my word and I don't break 'em for no one. You understand?". granted, I don't have balls in the literal sense but it's fitting. My Dragon aspect.
********** The Code of the Dragon **********
1. In all that you do consider its benefit or harm to yourself, your family, friends and your Clan.
2. Your duty is always to yourself, your family, your friends and your Clan.
3. Be honest with yourself and others and let them know you will not accept anything but honesty in return. You should always be above reproach or criticism in the eyes of the world.
4. You should always strive to be kind to others, or, should kindness prove impossible, strive always to be just.
5. Give your bond only after great consideration as to how it may affect your duties to yourself, your family, your friends and your Clan. And when you do give your bond it should carry the weight of a signed blood
oath.
6. Pledge friendship and your assistance only to those who are worthy and honorable. Work to strengthen those of your family, friends, Clan and they will strengthen you.
7. Do not pass on anything you have not personally witnessed or verified. Never give unproven hearsay the weight of truth.
8. The laws of the land should be obeyed whenever possible and within reason for the protection of yourself, your family, and your friends, for in the main they have been chosen with wisdom.
9. Never reveal the secrets entrusted to you by your family, or your friends without permission. Possession of a wagging tongue marks you as a fool. Exceptions to this are when keeping the secret would endanger an
innocent, bring unjustified dishonor to another, bring shame or dishonor to your family, Clan or friends, allow a criminal to go unpunished, or seriously violate the laws of the land. In this matter let common sense prevail.
10. Never neglect your family, your Clan, or your friends. Have the fierceness of a Dragon in their defense and always be certain they are provided for before starting any endeavor.
11. Offer forgiveness only to those who are truly
repentant of wrongs committed against you, your family, your Clan or your friends. And when you offer forgiveness, do so with honesty, for to do so grudgingly is not forgiveness but deceit.
12. Always remember that the fury and excitement of the moment can play havoc with the truth. To keep one's head in any situation is a virtue.
13. Dignity, a gracious manner and a good humor are to be admired and cultivated. They will aid you to bring honor to your family, friends,and your Clan.
14. Try always to be prepared for whatever the
future may bring. Life with all of its joys, sorrows, and secrets is to be embraced and experienced to the fullest, for this is how one gains wisdom.
15. Respect yourself. Have pride, but not arrogance, in
yourself, your appearance, and your position in the Clan. Do your best in all things. Be gracious with self-praise, without bragging, and self-forgiveness when warranted.
16. Power does not come with authority, but can be given. Be wary of how you use any power given to you, for power over something does not always give you the authority to control it.
********** The Dragon Creed **********
I am what I am because I choose to be.
I am a Dragon by choice and am subject to its law,
My Brothers and my Sisters, submissives and slaves are My heart and My mind.
Even though we may agree to disagree with each other, we still strive to be one.
Forgetting all negative energy and letting positive energy flow.
But as a Dragon, I must go forth to seek the path and the enlightenment.
Understanding ourselves and finding our peace within.
********** The Spirit of the Dragon *********
Of all the wondrous and magical creatures in the land, only the Dragon is revered over all others. Ancient and misunderstood, the mighty Dragon is unequaled in both Her might in war, and Her wisdom in peace. A person who wrongs a Dragon faces a terrible foe, for a Dragon's lifespan is almost timeless, and a Dragon never forgets. There is no force greater than that of a compassion of a Dragon's. Even so, a person who dares to befriend a Dragon will find a most powerful and loyal ally, as a Dragon will defend Her friends and allies to Her very last breath if need be. A Dragon fears no creature who threatens Her domain. This is the Spirit of the Dragon that guides your hands, and gives you strength.
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Fire born of Dragon's breath.
Immortal creature, immune to Death.
Eyes of emerald, gleaming cold.
Claws of Iron, Scales of Gold.
Turns her head to gaze at night.
There is no moon within her sight.
She knows tonight she won't be found.
Her wings raise her from the ground.
The dark land below drops out of sight.
She soars towards mountains, tall in the night.
But alas, she knows she will soon fade away,
Born of the night, yet dying by day.
Life fills her heart, as the air fills her wings.
And she opens her jaws, and she silently sings,
"Free for the night, wishing for always."
But the light is dawning with chill morning haze.
My Ideal Person:
I am looking for like minded individuals who are both masochistic and submissive. You must be true to yourself before you can be true to Me. I look for those that have self respect. If you can not respect yourself, then when the time comes, you can't respect me. True beauty comes from within. You need not be a supermodel, you need not be something from GQ.
I am interested in real people only. No players, no wannabes.
If you are unsure if you are submissive or a bottom. Ask. We will talk. We will explore.
If you think this is all about sex, go look somewhere else.
I do have references.
I am a former member of WICK'D "Women In Control of Kink & Domination- Denver chapter" (resigned)
I enjoy a broad range of BDSM activities. Please feel free to ask Me about them. I am always learning new techniques. If you have something that interests you, I will discuss it with you, then take the appropriate steps. Safety being the priority.
I live by Safe Sane Consensual (SSC) and Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK)
If you feel you can meet the standards I have set, please contact me. You must take the first step. That will be the first task.
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