| UPDATE: i'm no longer looking for any kind of relationship as i have found my One. i'm a proudly owned and collared slave of MasterDWC and am honored that He has found me worthy to serve Him. My submission and surrender are freely given to my wonderful Master and i will strive to honor, obey, serve and please Him always. i'm keeping my profile up on this site to keep in touch with the many friends i've made here and to read the forums.
About me:
I guess I could be classified as a "late bloomer" in the lifestyle, since I was introduced to it just a little over two years ago. It has been fun to explore and experience the different aspects of BDSM and I adore the "dance" of being restrained, blindfolded and having pain inflicted by my Master...and then the gentle aftercare as He holds and comforts me. In vanilla life where most of my time is spent, I enjoy music, sunshine, the beach, reading, travel and cruises, genealogy, cross stitch, riding my bike, walking for exercise, movies and dinner theaters and any activity which is new and different and from which I can learn new things. I love animals, birds, flowers, anything nature-related, and spending time with my family and friends. I have a good sense of humor, am rather laid back and try not to take life too seriously. Actually, I'm a pretty simple girl and don't need a lot of material things to make me happy and secure.
My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for a strict but kind and caring Dom/Master...one who would respect my limits and safe-words and help me to learn and grow in the lifestyle. Hopefully, he will live fairly close so that we can spend a reasonable amount of time together. He should have patience when I falter, which will probably be often since I'm unfamiliar with many of the protocols and aspects of this life. I would need Someone strong who will guide me firmly and be consistent with me as I struggle to learn His ways (and maybe unlearn some old behaviors). W/we would need to learn to trust and respect one another because with trust comes surrender and a desire to please in all ways. I would expect discipline when I fail, and encouragement and praise for the positive things I do that please Him so I will grow in confidence and self-esteem and be all He expects and wants me to be. I would need goals set for me and encouragement to obtain them as I do my best to accomplish the tasks He sets forth. Only after trust is earned would I be able to turn complete control over to Him but I want to know that my opinion is valued and respected...even if He chooses to do the exact opposite! I'm looking for Someone to touch my mind, heart and soul. I don't even know if such a person exists as the One I've described...but it's worth a try.
What I am Looking For:
My Master/best friend/lover: One to enjoy vanilla things with, with some BDSM thrown in; One who can challenge my mind and intellect; One I can laugh and have fun with as well as being there for E/each other during the rough times; One who will give me my space when I need it as I would do for Him. I am not looking for a 24/7 relationship right now but if the right One comes along, who knows!
What I'm NOT Looking For:
Emotional and/or physical abuse, one-night stands, filling in for wives who are no longer interested in sex, smokers, and men who are looking for sex only (I have no trouble finding that!).
~One of the hardest things in life we have to learn---is which bridges to cross and which ones to burn~ -David Russell
~Don't make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option~
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