I'm somewhat new to the scene. I've known my interest in BDSM for a long time--my fantasies started out a bit pervy, so it always seemed fairly natural to me. I didn't have someone to play pervy with at all until freshman year of college . . . 2002. However, there wasn't a lot of BDSM play. Then, mid-2007, I found someone more experienced in the scene and became a bit more of a lifestyler. I'm still learning, but then again I don't expect to find a place in life where I COULDN'T learn anymore.
I'm BAD at negotiation. I guess I don't feel comfortable, attuned, or aware enough with/of my own needs and desires to be able to voice them. Really, I'm more interested in what you want to do. Then I'll either blush and say "maybe," or I'll say no.
I'm not interested in being a service sub. I have enough chores to do in my own home, thanks. I'm not interested in worshipping, paying tribute, or buying gifts for/to anyone.
What I AM interested in is someone who can be a friend or at least a friendly acquaintance FIRST, and possibly a play partner.
People usually like the noises I make when I'm being hurt. I REALLY like dungeon furniture, something that you can be tied to inescapably.
I have a girlfriend--Doc. I'm not interested in leaving her. She's awesome, warm, and all kinds of other cuddly cutesy shit. I like her very much. We're poly/compersive. We can play with others, alone or together, and may be interested in either. She has a profile here too, but I haven't found it yet.
What counts as "explicit" genital nudity, anyway?
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