We are a married couple looking to add a third t

We are a married couple looking to add a third to our relationship. In this relationship I would like a girl who can be giving and loving, likes housework, is interested in my husband and me equally. I am very picky about who I let get close to me. This is not just play time to us. I expect that the girl must be able to hold a job in the real world and act like a normal person in their own right. I hate housework so help in that direction is necessary. Must be able to entertain themselves part of the time as they would not be in the house with us all the time. We have a cottage in the back that we would house a girl in at the start until we had the right comfort level and had her come live in the house with us. I don't like the idea of someone who has been around the block too many times if you understand my meaning. So we are looking for a beginner or at least not a girl that has been there and done that too with every possible scenario.I do like longer hair and pale skin. I don't really like a girl to tan. I am fond of larger breasts but this is not a requirement. I like slim girls and fluffy ones but I do not find obese attractive. I also have a thing for girls that have a little bit of a goth thing going for them. Not too much, but a little is nice. We are both Dominants so the girl would have to be a submissive or want to learn to be a slave. Any switches that are interested would have to understand that there is no chance of you becoming dominant in this relationship. If you are ok with that then you are welcome to contact us. Just no attempts at head games or power plays. That kind of behavior would end the relationship. He and I are in charge, period. When contacting me please be able to provide a photo at the outset and prove that you are the person in the photo. We don't have any desire to waste time on stupid guys pretending to be a girl in some dumb game. Our photo's are available to girls that we talk to. I do not put them on the site because of my job. Until then, he says I look like Wednesday Addams grown up. I don't think he looks like anyone famous but he is good looking, strong and very very intense.