| This is a long and completely thought out profile.... if you're not serious about getting to know someone first - please move on. Know that I am looking for more than just a Dominant or to be dominated - I know what I need and what I want, and it's ever so lovely to have them be the same.
Describing yourself is always the toughest part. I've done a lot of soul-searching and have put a lot of thought and effort into this description, so please bear with me.... it's as honest as I can be about myself.... which is a bit scary to be out like this.
I am first and foremost an independant, extremly outgoing & free-thinking female. I have a wicked sense of humor and love to laugh. I am a slave. That is where my "natural" headspace is. That is not a joke nor a fantasy - it is what I truly am. People ask me if I'm submissive - and I answer truthfully - no. I'm not. Slavery is so different from submission.
I have a mothering, nurturing instinct that frequently comes out. I am very comfortable in my own skin and I enjoy life to the fullest. I love to exercise, am a regular fish in water, I enjoy playing tennis and I'm learning to chase those frustrating little golf balls down the fairway (whoever decided to make flourescent orange and neon green golf balls has my eternal gratitude! Now they need to make them float! hehe).
I also love to ride horses and my motorcycle. Yes, I own and ride my own bike - it's the closest I can get to subspace non-lifestyle.
I submit only to those with whom I feel that connection of trust - I will usually know its there immediately after conversing with a Man - I just don't act on anything right away! Getting to know someone is hard enough. To surrender and share the secrets of my body, mind and soul is a deep commitment and involves a lot of communication, trust, respect and above all - time.
Being a slave is not the easiest path to follow but it is who and what I am. While I thoroughly enjoy the physical aspect, I absolutely delight in the mental and emotional. There is such total freedom in bondage that it is hard to explain to those who have not ever been to those depths. To turn over complete control can allow you to soar the heavens freely... complete freedom in bondage.
From experience, I know I need someone who can thwart me at most every turn; someone who can tame the panther that occassionally comes out of hiding to peek her head up. An old friend used to say I "need just enough rope to hang myself with." That is a fairly appropriate description! A brat I am not - nor do I wish to be. (Bad connotation for that word, actually.)
I prefer a Master who is a true gentlemen - a good sense of humor is a MUST, possessing a true dominance with a lack of arrogance, and add in a dash of the romantic. My preference is that you be between the ages of 30 and 40.
I'm sorry Ladies... I'm not trying to offend You and while I respect Your Dominant virtues, I personally prefer Men. Yes, I know what I'm missing and while I'm all for You finding your girl - I am not not bi-sexual, bi-curious or bi-interested. I do love beautiful women - and there are some lovely women in this life.
Why do people question what is clearly stated. And YES, that is a picture of me kissing a WOMAN's leg - She is a lovely woman and extremely Dominant. I never said I didn't respect women - I'm just not interested in them sexually!
No players and please no "submit to me now" or "serve me now slave" idiocy. It just makes me laugh - serious inquiries will be responded to.
Due to some of the emails I've received, I'm interjecting a few comments here. I put a lot of thought and effort into this profile. Please show the same courtesy, either by having a detailed profile or when interested, express a few more details than you are a "Master" or "Hi! I'm _____, wanna meet for sex?". Show some initiative and write something!! |