" We wanted to try something new this time. If you cannot commit to chatting with us on the phone wi..."

We wanted to try something new this time. If you cannot commit to chatting with us on the phone within the first week or so then just don’t bother life is too short to have to wait on a commitment to know what you sound like.

Hello all, I’m Steel and the girl is Andi. I’m 28 and she’s 22. We’re a PolyFi Couple. What that means is that we are looking for a partner in crime not just a quick good time. We are looking for someone who is able to love us as much as we love them and as much as we love each other. We are not looking for someone to be an indentured sex slave as I am sure no matter who you are eventually that would get boring.

We play and I have been known to leave a bruise here and there, but playing is not who we are it just happens to be something that we do. We don’t want someone whose main goal in life is to spend their every waking moment in a Cage or chained to a wall, no offense if this is your ultimate dream, it’s just a little hard for us to have civilized company or watch a movie with you chained to something every moment of every day.

So what are we then? Well we’re a kinky couple who have a LOT of love to give and want to find someone who is willing to give it back to us. You need to be a well rounded person, you need to be equally attracted to Me and Andi, and genuinely be interested in being with us both. Quite recently we have been inundated with requests interested only in me, Andi and I are a package deal you don’t get one without the other and there is no splitting us up once you are here. That is not to mean that you will not be equal in our eyes, no, you will just be more recent and the kind of bond that Andi and I have doesn’t come in just a day or so. It comes over time and truly diving into one another and loving them in spite of their idiosyncrasies.

So what Nefarious things are we into you may ask? Well I am a HUGE movie Buff, I can easily have a 3 hour conversation on Indie Films and watch all movies with the subtitles on, believe it or not you get more out of the movie that way, that is once you learn to watch and read at the same time. Andi is a lover of music that existed long before she was even born and has forgotten more about RUSH, Led Zeppelin, and Pink Floyd than I have collectively LEARNED my entire life.

Sexually we are much more than our kinks, we are not driven by our sexuality but indulge in all that it has to offer. This means that you may want to be open to new things. Should you be interested in knowing the capacity of our kink you are more than welcome to ask but we are rarely able to give the answers people are looking for because we may not be into something now but who knows how we will feel doing it with you.

I have been in this lifestyle since I was 16, feel free to read the entries I have made on that in Adrift. I introduced Andi to this lifestyle and so all her knowledge has come primarily from me, however she has made many leaps and bounds in her own connections on this matter. As for you, it doesn’t matter how long you have been in this lifestyle it isn’t about what you know it’s about who you are and that isn’t created in the timeline of kink it’s part of your existence and that is what we are looking to share.

So Should you find yourself checking our or profile and liking what you see and what you read then by all means send us a message and lets get to know one another.

As Always

Steel & Andi