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bottomboy81
Male Submissive, 27, Brisbane, Australia
For most of you, you are now viewing your potentially favourite “ignore victim”. I am your classic male detractor, I will leave a lot of women with their teeth grinding. I am a taurean at heart and a lovely bitter pessimist. But I try to mean well in the end without my sarcasm getting in the way. I consider my self to be a quiet person in real life but also some one with strong opinions. I will say what I think without caring about the consequences and love a good shit stir/debate. My most favourable topics on debate atm is: 1. Why shouldn’t you be a lifestyler 2. How today’s women discriminate men. 3. What ways I can find to pick on you. Don’t worry, it changes and rotates each week. Why am I here? It would be nice to find some one for the long term but compatibility for a relationship is another thing. I am basically a bottom. I am not a lifestyler, which also means I don’t want a d/s relationship. Sorry for the control freaks out there. I am not going to weed your bloody gardens so shut the hell up. It would also be nice to find some casual play partners for experimentation. I will get into more of this soon but here is who I don’t want to meet… People who I don’t want to get involved with: 1.Chauvinist (this applies to the female supremacy wackys) 2.Narcissists (looking through the domme profiles, lets play “pick out the non narcissists”) 3.Feminazi bigots (unless they want debate online) 4. Women who have a sense of nymphotropism (look it up in Wikipedia) 5.Men (sorry, I am not a cum bum. You will never convince me to play your poo pushing games) 6.Transvestites (you know the deal) Now if you have read this far *cough* you will probably be wondering what types of scenes I am into. My particular interest is forced play. It can be activities such as anal rape, giving oral service (rimming), orgasm denial, gagging, golden showers, spanking, slapping, pinching, hair pulling, tickling, unexpected prolonged bondage scenes such as kidnapping. I could probably go on further with this as it’s just brief for now. But at times or certain ways I would like to be willingly submissive. I guess in ways I like to be challenged into submission rather than being heaps willingly to submit like the submissive lifestylers. I can be a stubborn pain in the arse at times if you get what I mean. People get confused with me how I may come across as a dominant type of person in some streaks but in the bedroom I like that so called dominance to be over taken. I believe in the “you never know until you try” saying and feel open to experiment a wide variety of scenes. I want some one who can corrupt me with their ideas that I may have never thought of doing before. It’s all about give and take to make things work. Freak me out baby!
12/28/2008 3:29:00 PM: Tips for the dommes 1. Just because you are a woman who offers kink, it doesn’t make you a winning prize 2. Just because you’re gender is a woman, it doesn’t mean you are special 3. You have to accept that you don’t have “golden pussies” and it’s not that you are “giving it up” like it’s the frigging lotto. 4. Men are not the only ones who should initiate first contact. 5. Don’t expect everything for free from men and then expect men to pay a price for everything he gets from women. 6. If you are just the average woman like most on this site, you don’t deserve a man who is above average and more interesting than most on this site (I am not only talking about looks here). So why reject the men who are in the same status as you for being in that status? 7. Just because a man shows strong interest towards his sexual fantasies, it doesn’t mean that’s all he wants and he is a user. 8. No, you can't be a princess unless you look like one. 9. Yes, your shit smells as much as men’s _______________________________ 12/14/2008 4:09:32 PM: Chivalry is benevolent sexismWell what can I say about shitalry I meant chivalry? Its BS. The way its used today, women just want the free ride. Its time to put an end to the gravy train but there is too many chivalrous spineless sucker men out there who fall for it. It’s really this simple, a man shouldn’t have to buy a woman’s interest. This can also be defined as chauvinism jackasses.It’s understandable to be chivalrous in ways in a d/s relationship and also vanilla relationships but to expect a man to pay for your lousy ass is another thing. A few dommes I have came across have this mentality and I find it very smelly. If you are strong and dominant after all, you wouldn’t need men paying for your way.Don’t get me wrong, many women don’t have this mentality but there are also many women who do. I believe many women these days pick and choose what areas they want equality in. Kinda like, I want equal pay and have everything and every opportunity men have today but I don’t want equality in dating because it works in my favour. This is an example how self absorbed today’s women can be ladies and gentleman. I can only wish men can make the rules when it comes to equality to. Women have been the biggest complainers towards inequality for generations, now they are the biggest offenders. Not all women!If men want traditional benefits that favour the male gender….we all know what we think of them but in year 2008 it’s still socially acceptable for a woman to be an entitlement princess. Try telling these types of women that and they will be shameless hypocritical two faced bigots to the end. I feel that men are in constant debt for the stolen generation. I am paying my grandfathers bills and for the wrong things he and other men did. What’s even more disturbing is when men such as my self complain about this, we get people saying things like “you will never get a woman with that attitude”… WTF bitch? So you are saying that I will never get a woman all because I wont give her privileges and entitlements? Go and eat shit and bark at the moon! I can remember once I had a coffee with a woman as I was meeting her for the first time. When it was time to pay and leave, by her body language, she backed away and expected me to pay for her fatass. That made me feel intimidated, how dare she! I ended up paying but I regret it. I think back now that I should have just made a scene and tell her to pay for her self and walk out. This type of chauvinism is sickening.Men are confused these days, some women want chivalry and others get offended by it. How is a man supposed to know? Like… he could have held the door open for one woman last week and she gets offended and than this week he doesn’t do it for another woman and she gets offended. Women reject men after dates either because they were not chivalrous enough or they were too chivalrous. The poor bastards cant win. Many women need to stop switching on and off traditional benefits and live in reality. Many of these women preach to have equal opportunity and have everything men have today but when they want men to do something for them, they go all traditionalist. When the tables are turned, the political correct opinion is chauvinism and he is just another slimeball looking for a submissive woman (in vanilla terms).Chivalry causes more harm than good in today’s dating world.For the women who want chivalry, equality is a real bitch!Suck it up _______________________________ 12/13/2008 10:37:37 AM: Missing white woman syndromeLook it up in wikipedia...Missing White Woman Syndrome (MWWS) is a term used to describe what is alleged[by whom?] to be a disproportionately greater degree of coverage in television, radio, and print news reporting of a missing person case involving a white woman, compared with cases concerning male or non-white individuals. In the United States, a very small percentage of missing persons are victims of non-family abductions, and these victims are, according to the FBI, the most endangered. The majority of these missing persons are white female juveniles. The essential features of a missing person said to give rise to Missing White Woman Syndrome are sex,her race, (relative) prettiness, and age. These features are said to provoke positive discrimination in the reporting as news of the disappearance of a young white woman, and so to increase public interest in her disappearance _______________________________ 10/21/2008 6:12:59 PM: Why are todays women shameless hypocrites? Many to most women are bitter towards men, its hard to find a woman who isn’t. I mean this by that women generally have mistrust in men. A man is guilty until proven innocent meaning that he may be a potential sleaze or user until proven otherwise. If you have a penis, you are potentially evil. Not only that but there is a endless amount of women out there who openly and shamelessly express that there are not many decent people in the male gender as for saying things like “where are the decent men” . It’s basically a social norm to see a woman express this about men. But if a man is bitter, even to a lesser degree to what I mentioned above, just about every woman will condemn him for it. It’s socially normal for a woman to be bitter but a man is seen as an idiot if he is bitter in any shape or form in this so called male privileged society. This is what society has taught people for generations: A woman who stands up against unwarranted behaviour from men is a liberated woman who is a victim from the evil chauvinist pigs. A man who stands up against unwarranted behaviour from women is an angry misogynist who wants to get laid. So what do you think is the biggest problem of these two? Getting offered too much of some thing (sex) that you only want from some people or in some situations while getting too many offers from people you are not generally attracted to in this "there are not many decent men" society. Hardly or not getting offers at all and not being appreciated, admired, wanted and given a fair chance that you deserve I think number 2 is the bigger problem and yet, the people who face number 2 (which is most of the male population) are not warranted in a political correct view to have bitterness towards the opposite gender. But it’s acceptable in a political correct view to have bitterness towards the opposite gender if you face number 1 in your life, even that it’s a lesser problem than number 2 because it’s a female problem and not a male problem. Why is it this way? Simple, nymphotropism. So men are supposed to sit here and hardly or never get appreciated or given a fair chance and remain with a smile on their face while most or all women get what most men can only wish for and we are supposed to validate them when they show bitterness or else we are wrong. Many to most men do this, they hide their bitterness and put on an act, even shame other men who speak up about it to get acceptance from women. It’s a vicious cycle that goes round and round. That being said, by how the situation is for men on here, if you expect every man to not feel bitter over it, you are an idiot. Not only when it comes to bitterness but women generally reject men for what they are themselves! Which is another hypocritical tactic women play in the dating game. Women expect a man to be extra interesting than most men in the same league. Or for this scene, lets say a woman is looking for a particular kink, there is 50 men whose kinks are compatible to hers. Out of them 50 men, she will only choose a few guys who stand out from most of the 50. If them few guys reject her, she wont bother with the rest and just remain single and waiting. But if its a over weight woman, a average or athletic built man may not have to be extra interesting than most guys next door to qualify her interest but she will most likely judge over weight men the same as I mentioned above. Most women don’t stand out from most in their league/group either. Most or all women expect above average emails and profiles and a guy to be extra interesting one way or the other than most guys with compatible kinks or in the same league to qualify their interest. But how many women have the capability and talent to be all of this of what they expect out of men? Only a minority of any group can be the things that women expect. That’s one of the reasons why you see the same women on these sites for months or years getting 100s or 1000s of offers and still being unsatisfied at the end result. If a woman can’t get a man who falls in the minority in a league or compatibility wise, she will more likely wait until she does. But most or all are aware that they are not the minority themselves but think they deserve the minority because they have a pussy. _______________________________ 10/7/2008 3:36:10 PM: Check out my new audio greeting. This pick up line works every time in the night clubs. I should try it at the retribution club some time.
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