Please note that I've moved on..... you

12/26/2008 11:00:11 AM: I have moved, or relocated, shifted.. to my new profile ALAstella. This profile is just for posterity and happy memories.

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12/25/2008 9:26:14 AM: My SO and domme arrived yesterday from Poland, and we are living together and busy setting up two homes, one here in London and the other in the north eastern part of Poland where she comes from. We are busy changing our apartment round and basically catching up with each other after not meeting through the hiatus in our relationship lasting over three years. The contact has always been the same, but when you go from LDR and corresponding to being together every day you have to start all over again. We are both happy, the start may not be ideal and it may at times be difficult, but together we both have what we share to help us get through it all. I'm no longer 'seeking', I've been found, and all is well.

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12/17/2008 5:21:55 AM: Things are constantly changing around me, and I've somehow got through the recent spell of adversity through changing what I can, and changing my perspective on the things that cannot right now be changed, or could not be changed period. I've suffered some setbacks, but I kind of figure that this happens in life and there's always some sort of a reason for this. But even though the circumstances aren't quite what I w3ant them to be I'm realising that it's me who has a different perspective now, and things are much better because I can see brighter and better things ahead. I spend my time going off on trains of thought and exploring, just exploring where these thoughts may lead.. I think this is called learning.

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11/26/2008 8:10:59 PM: Apologies to those who have come to my profile with the hope of developing a relationship with me.. as it looks like I've been found. I'm in communication with someone and I'm happy.

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11/23/2008 11:50:23 PM: 
Just in case anyone here is wondering one of the things which I prefer, no in fact need, is what I call 'balanced contact'.. Any friendship or relationship involves more than one person, each being responsible for their part in the relationship, and each actively interested in pursuing things further or maintaining what already exists. While I am aware that this is a BDSM website and that I am listed here as a
submissive (and part of this awareness is understanding what words like 'dominant' and 'submissive' mean) until we get ourselves into some sort of real time situation I'm more interested in you as a person rather
than a dynamic.