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stella41b
Female Submissive, 42,  London, UK

 

stella41b

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 stella41b

 Submissive Female

 London 

 UK

 Willing to Relocate

 5'11"

 281 lbs

 42

 Lesbian

 Caucasian

 10/16/07

 12/01/08


 
"Oh the games people play now
Every night and every day now
Never meaning what they say
Never saying what they mean
First you wind away your hours
In your concrete towers
Soon you will be covered up in flowers
In the back of a black limousine..."
Inner Circle

I could be stating who and what I'm looking for here, but to be honest I'm just making it up as I go along and open to whatever life throws into my path. This is the truth.

The thing is if you're male then sure, we can be platonic friends, but nothing more than this. I identify myself as a lesbian and am therefore only ever intimate with women. I'm submissive and being connected with the BDSM community for over 20 years I have a background in Old Guard, the leather community and formal domestic service. I'm a highly experienced female service type submissive, maid, cook, masseuse, companion and bottle-washer and these are roles I know only too well. Kink and fetish too, I'm openminded and quite kinky myself. I'm not a masochist, I don't 'need' pain, but accepting such from a sadistic dominant female sums up the quintessential quality of service and submission - putting the needs and wants of someone else before your own.

I'm Stella, quite unique and quite individual. I'm female but I am also a chimera - this means I'm transgendered by way of a genetic 'shift' in my DNA pattern from male to female, therefore I don't fit neatly into any sort of binary gender mindset. I grew up and formerly lived as male, only I never really was male, just a female with male physical characteristics. I'm still transitioning but am now living as myself. And no, there's not much hair, I'm big, soft, warm, cuddly and feminine.

I'm inclined to be optimistic and positive about finding friendship and perhaps one special friendship which turns into a close, loving relationship with a woman based on her preferred dynamic, needs, wants and desires. For the main due to me being me I've been considered fit for doing no more than someone's domestic work and cleaning, which served it's purpose at the time but I'm seeking ideally something more. I'd like to experience life as being someone more than a second option, an experiment, someone who you get to know, use, and then toss aside when you get bored or you've got what you wanted. I'm hoping that I can find someone who is just as open as me, who's prepared to scratch the surface and get to know the real me, the bit that nobody's ever really wanted or needed.

I'm an intuitive empath, warm, sensitive, kind, intelligent, with a sense of humour, I'm a recognised fringe playwright and stage director, the first transgendered female playwright in the UK, a charity worker and social activist. I run my own small theatre in London, also an sLGBT support group, and I coordinate the Battersea Park Munch which takes place on the last Tuesday of every month. I'm deeply spiritual, practise Theravada Buddhism, have a vast myriad of different interests both kinky and vanilla.

I also post frequently on the Message Boards here, am also on IC, Yahoo 360, Multiply, Facebook, and my sigline contains my website.

I don't do right wing politics, webcams, cauliflowers, or 'this is all about me' dommes.

I don't normally engage in online relationships unless they have a realistic chance of becoming real time. That saying I'm considering emigrating to Canada in 2009/2010.

The operative words of this profile are 'I'm open', open to friendship, Message Board contacts, online friendship, meetings, advice, support, and maybe something more.

Are you?


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