| hello i've been in the lifestyle, on and off, for the pass 8 yrs. it's mostly about attitude for me. looks, size and all those things don't matter that much to me, although, there does have to be some chemistry. it's way more about the willingness to serve ME. but I do not allow anyone to lose who THEY are or what THEY want to be or do in life. I prefer to let a sub/slave be who and what they want, as long they serve ME and MY needs as well, which makes for a far better relationship between US and ALL things possible for EVERYONE, with nothing and no one to hold you back. in fact, you will get far more support, providing it's something positive and not something self destructive to you and/or us. now, don't get me wrong it's not all roses without some thorns. because i truly LOVE the rough play and having my own slut to use. for me, punishing a sub/slave for something they did or didn't do, is a great perk and i can be strict and do expect obedience. but in return, hopefully, everyone gets what they truly need and desire.
I WILL ALWAYS RESPECT YOUR LIMITS. I MIGHT TEST THEM, BUT I WOULD ALWAYS RESPECT THEM. WITH THE PAIN THERE MUST BE PLEASURE. IF NOT, THEN WHAT IS THE POINT IN SERVING?
SO LET ME KNOW IF YOUR INTERESTED.
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