"Here I find myself starting over. I know who I am, and I like her. I am no longer the chrysalis, but..."

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 spiceydoll

 Submissive Female

 Charlottish 

 North Carolina

 5'4"

 165 lbs

 34

 Bisexual

 Caucasian

 02/15/08

Here I find myself starting over. I know who I am, and I like her. I am no longer the chrysalis, but the butterfly. I don't need someone to define me, but someone who's life I can enhance and who can enhance mine. I am genuinely a giver and a pleaser. I have had to work hard to learn to set boundaries with people so they do not take advantage of that. Please respect that about me. I have a submissive heart. Like most submissives I have a strong need of attention. This is key in making me who I am, for what I receive I give back 10 fold.

I value honesty above all else. One thing you need to think about though, if you can't be honest with yourself how can you ever be honest with another.

I have an awesome sense of humor. If you don't get it and don't have one too, well...we won't click well at all.

I am fun and adventurous. I crave experiencing new things...no matter how large or small. I want to go out and LIVE life not sit around and wait for it to fall in my lap. Sometimes I need a little help in knowing how to make that happen, so you need to pretty good match for me there.

I am a terrible flirt, but I am a good girl at heart and know where to draw the line.

I am a smart girl. I'm strong. Just because I am submissive doesn't mean I check that at the door.

I love head bondage, ball gags,high heels, fetish wear, and tight bondage (especially from tape), and cleaver wicked mind fucks. I might say I am scared, but my curiousity and eagerness to try new things usually gets the better of me.

I have a few "persona's" that can be fun...but they are more than just role play...they are very real aspects of who I am.

I am a bit of an exhibitionist.

I have been called a bit of a pain slut. I adamantly deny this. I think I am not comfortable with the word pain...real pain hurts...therefore I opt to say I am a sensation slut. Stingy sensations being by far the best.

I do not consider myself a switch, as in my heart and soul I know I am a submissive, as anyone who knows me knows as well. But I do have a sadistic streak and do enjoy topping on occasion.

I have a pretty good self awareness, and typically a good insite to other people as well, or just life in general.

I am a social person. I have a lot of friends in my life who love me and are very special to me.

My Ideal Person:
A single, employeed, intelligent, attractive, adventurous, within 3-4 hr driving distance, Dominant male. One that can respect that I am still a person, I have opinions and feeling, and be willing to hear them out. I have children so if that is a problems...save us both some trouble and move on. I am NOT poly or into swinging. Once a strong relationship where both are secure is formed, bringing others in on occasion with us TOGETHER would be ok.