I'm a 32 year old straight male Dom although I often get told I look younger. I have been known to switch, but my only motivation is to understand how things feel, I dislike receiving pain and am generally never submissive. I only understood what it felt like to be hit with a cane repeatedly in the same place once I had experienced it. It was an eye opener, some time ago. I Have experienced most types of play that I do, the major exception to this is rope bondage. I've never been suspended or hogtied.
I build and sell some of my own toys, currently I'm producing a range of about 15 canes and other impact toys. Also I build some of my own electric devices, these are generally not for sale although I have reconditioned violet wands for friends. Currently I'm building a custom electrics box that will include both a violet wand and a 110v power supply for another type of wand.
My BDSM interests
I like to play both publicly and privately and am currently getting to the Manchester Under 35 munch and Spankd as often as possible, and others when I can.
~If you'd like to know more about the Under 35 munch send me a note and I'll point you in the right direction. It's become quite an active munch with a regular friendly crowd.~
Back to my interests, electrics has to be my main passion. I have many electrical toys that vary in intensity from sensual to painful. I also enjoy rope bondage, and have developed a more western style with hints of traditional Japanese bondage. I like to include other elements into my ties, back to the electrics again, forced orgasms, stress positions and more recently a ball and chain. I'm less likely to use leather cuffs for restraint although I do like using belts and various types of wrap to mummify or restrain. I enjoy giving a good flogging and have recently been using a single tail whip. I enjoy using canes, especially if I've made them myself. I find they can make a great sensual toy and add suspense to a scene as you never know quite how hard they will be.
There are many more forms of play I enjoy and have experience with If you'd like to know more then ask me. There are also things I'd like to expand my knowledge of, currently I have no real experience with needles or sutures, there seem to be quite a few workshops on the subject at the moment so that may change. I am open to most types of play and usually play is limited to the other persons limits rather than mine though I do have my own limits.
Some things I don't particularly enjoy are age play, schoolroom scenarios, and humans acting as animals. Though I am curious about the latter, but it would have to be kept to separate play sessions from other forms of play.
What I'm looking for
Fundamentally I'm not looking for a relationship at the moment, I have a small group of friends I play with occasionally.
I am looking for submissive or switch females that would sub to me for either private play or going to clubs and munches with. I'm open to both a purely play relationship and also a D/s relationship. 2
I'm also looking for someone just to practice rope on, no strings attached so to speak, so if you'd just like to be tied up for a while get in touch.
What I am not looking for
Quite simply a Domme. Although I am open to topping alongside another person.
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