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splinterofhope

Slave/Dom Couple, 40/45, Michigan

Permanently and happily owned, collared and branded property of: O'Tuathaigh de Bastion Topaz: Registered slave since 1-29-02 slave #344217 Ladybug: Registered slave since 6-8-07 slave #879998023 UPDATE: Greetings! My name is topaz. I have been granted the honor of being Master's first girl, Mistress of His house, Majordomo and wife and I proudly wear His permanent collar and marks! We have a well rounded family at this time, but are hoping to expand it, should the right person come along. We have found the poly way of life to be so fulfilling and complementing of who we are. Although Master is heterosexual, He is no longer just considering females. He knows how to "use" both sexes and will consider male slaves and slave couples for permanent positions or training in His house, as well. Not allowed, permitted or accepted in the house of O'Tuathaigh de Bastion: 1. slaves do not own property (this includes but is not limited to slaves, pets, play toys, material items, etc.) 2. being demanding, selfish, disrespectful or outright rude to others 3. drugs or excessive alcohol consumption 4. 24/7 play 5. seeking out punishment or negative attention 6. lifestyle training of minors 7. competition with other slaves 8. laying around all day expecting others to wait on you 9. expecting something of someone you are not willing to give in return 10. expecting to make or change the rules of Master’s house 11. playing games or manipulation 12. throwing fits or whining Requirements of perspective slaves: 1. open, honest and complete communication 2. respectfulness 3. common courtesy 4. a strong desire or willingness to be a pleasing slave (ie; sincere willingness to follow the rules of Master’s house) 5. down to earth/realistic 6. maturity (ie; you’re an adult, act like one!) 7. sincerity 8. understanding 9. willingness to pitch in and work as a team with Master’s other slaves 10. willingness to learn from Master’s other slaves 11. willingness to teach Master’s other slaves 12. acceptance of working with and complementing Master’s other slaves strengths and weakness’ 13. capability to adapt to and accept what Master desires and needs from you, as an individual and as a part of His house and family If you still have an interest in us, please read on. For those that don’t, we wish you well on your journey in finding what you seek. I am a slave to my Master first and foremost! I love Him with all that I am. I have more respect for Him than I could have ever imagined possible. The thing that pains me, more than anything in this world, would be for Him to have a want, a desire or a need even, that I am incapable of meeting for Him. Let's face it no one person can possibly fulfill all the wants and desires of another. I want my Master to have all His hearts desires. There are things that I am physically and emotionally incapable of giving him, or being for Him. Therefore, my consent, willingness and desire to be poly enables me to meet those needs for Him. His other slave, ladybug, and I complement each other pretty well. Her strong points are different than mine. Mine, are different than hers. We are learning to fulfill His desires and needs, as we have a common goal and are working together to accomplish it. We each have a place, a purpose and a function. In some ways, I see her as an extension of myself. ladybug and I are learning from each other and we have enough in common that we enjoy spending time together. Granted, in any relationship there are rocky times. What strengthens a relationship is the ability and willingness to make it through those times and find yourself closer to one another. As a slave I would NEVER say anything negative or display my Master-induced frustration to anyone! There is no way I would risk somebody misinterpreting that and thinking poorly of the Man I love, the Man I serve, the One for whom I exist. He is my world… my everything! Yes, I am capable of functioning without Him and can stand on my own two feet. I simply choose not to and am very happy in my chosen way of life, the life I was meant to live. ladybug is learning to see both sides and we are able to communicate with one another about that frustration without the worry of being a poor representation of Master. Now, I am not saying that we sit and bitch about Him, rather we encourage each other in our submission to Him. We do our best to remind each other of the common goal we both have. More hands make less work. More financial security lessens the stresses of the real world, in which we live, and gives us more time to spend together. Together as a family, quality time to bond and be close and communicate together and understand one another. Less time cleaning gives more time to play and spend with one another to cherish the moments we are all blessed with together. Let’s face it, life is demanding enough. Add on top of that the demands of being slave and it gets pretty overwhelming. The extra help, the bond of a friendship, and the team effort to meet common goals makes life a whole lot easier and more enjoyable! And above all else, it enables me to complete and fulfill Him… His desires and needs, not to mention adding so much more to His happiness and fulfillment of life! We are very family oriented, and believe strongly in family ties. Master would never ask or expect anyone to give up their family. As a family, ourselves, we love taking road trips, horseback riding, going out to dinner, and watching movies. We do have children, 7 all together and 2 grandsons. Two of our children still live with us. Although they are aware of the lifestyle we live, they are still our children, even if some are now young adults, and they deserve to have their own beliefs, opinions and choices respected just as they are required to respect ours. Some are comfortable with our poly relationship with ladybug, others are not and we respect that by being discreet about it in front of them. At the same time, they have all welcomed, accepted and respect ladybug as a loved and cherished family member. Believe me, we are not perfect, but we do live the way that we believe is right for us, as a Master/slave poly household and family! And we sincerely hope to find others to join us that will enhance what we already have! Finding others has been a long and quite often rough and rocky road… BUT… we found ladybug and that has given us hope that there are more out there! For those of you that are still reading, thank you for taking the time to do so. If you are interested and wish to apply we would love to hear from you! Please respond with what you are seeking, what you are hoping for, what kind of connection you hope to find, what you feel you need, what things you like to do, what you would like to see happen in your future, where you would hope to fit in and where you hope to end up. Please give these things much thought before responding and please be explicit and as detailed as possible.

4/19/2007 2:48:22 AM: *sighs heavily while getting out her soap box* Do i "have" to explain myself and "my" choices?? No, i don't.. but i will... ONLY because i feel that "some" people need to understand some things! i received another email this morning (one of many not-so-nice and disrespectful emails)... this time from a male sub.. which read.. "get up off your knees and have some respect for yourself" First of all, who is ANYone to tell me what to do?? The ONLY one that has that right is my Master! Second, being on my knees for my Master (and ONLY my Master) does NOT mean in any way, shape or form that i don't respect myself. What it DOES mean is that i have a significant amount of respect for my Master... because He has "earned" it (which is a hell of a lot more than i can say for most people in this day and age)! And i have way more respect for myself now than i ever did before i met my Master! Why?? Because "He" respects me for who and what i am and allows me to be JUST that... and NOT just because i am slave! What i don't have any respect for are judgements from ignorant people (ignorant; uninformed or refuse to be informed), or people that seem to be "incapable" of or just flat out "refuse" to be respectful of others beliefs, opinions, choices, and/or property! *puts away her soap box and wonders what ever happened to "if you can't say anything nice... don't say anything at all" or "treat others as you wish them to treat you"* _______________________________ 4/12/2007 5:22:38 AM: First and foremost, i would like to thank all the ones that have sent very kind, respectful and supportive emails to Master and me. We do wish all of you the best in life and your searches!Just some food for thought: Does anyone truly know and understand that we all have lessons to learn about ourselves and others before we are able to find what we want and need? Is that want/need that we all have so strong that it overpowers keeping and working for what we already have inside of us or in front of us? Does becoming jaded make us more cautious or does it mold us into something we don't want to be or what we criticize others for?Makes one wonder, doesn't it? _______________________________ 7/13/2005 4:34:09 AM: i would just like to say thank you to all of you that have been so respectful and supportive. It is much appreciated and very encouraging!Thank you again and Master and i wish the best to all of you! _______________________________ 1/2/2005 5:39:24 AM: Doms... aren't they suppose to be respectful? my profile "clearly" states that i am owned, but yet others still feel a need to email me pretty much demanding me to respond to them. Know that if you are a so called dom that is trying to poach, you will not be receiving anything back from me. Although you may end up getting a not so happy email from my Master if they persist. _______________________________ 12/7/2004 2:19:29 PM: ahhh.... true connections with others... they are few and far between... but soooo worth while when you do find them! *warm smiles*