My Daddy reads all my mail before I get to it so any male doms either expect a reply from my Daddy or none at all. If your intentions are anything more than friendship than please don't waste your time. Well our search for a third is on hold right now as we have a newborn in the house and nobody is getting any sleep. We are thinking about a third (submissive female no older than 25 please) but not totaly decided on it yet we have to consider our children and how it will effect our current relationship and if its something we even really want to do. Also our kids are top in our life they come before everything. My 3 year old is smart as hell and he suprsies me everyday with some of the things he does. And his 4 year old could get locked in a pyramid and fedex himself home before we even think about catching a plane home. And my 4 month old is pukey but at least I am getting some sleep finally.