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redheadeddom

Male Dominant, 23, West Hollywood, California

A little bit about my style. I'm not into the whips and wax so much, although I do enjoy that sort of thing sometimes. But mostly, I like domination. Real domination, not heavily-scripted scenes and fluff. The titles don't mean anything unless the dom and the sub both feel it. I'm a sadist and I like to get into people's heads. If you like being spanked, then spanking isn't much of a punishment - but I'll find something that is. For me, domination is a process. You work your way deeper and deeper into the sub's head. The really fun stuff happens not just to the body but to the mind. The really fun stuff is when the sub knows exactly what's happening but is helpless to stop it. With a sub, I'm controlling, intense, unsettling, and good with mindgames and the psychological aspects. And I have a thing for bratty girls.If you're looking for degredation, humiliation, and heavy domination, check out my profile and see if you like anything. I'm not an asshole and I'm fairly experienced for my age. I won't tell you to get on your knees when I first meet you or any of that stupid stuff. I use a safeword, I play consensually, etc. I'll break you and and build you back up only to do it all over again. It's not everyone's style, but those of you who enjoy it - or are just looking for a little something more - let me know.

10/10/2008 10:26:33 PM: Domination is like cracking a safe. I read a story in a book once about a thief who was trying to crack a safe, but couldn't get it open. He tried all the tricks he knew but they just didn't work, so finally he got some dynamite and blew the safe to pieces. Problem was, in doing so, he destroyed all the money inside the safe. The author said that he hadn't beat the safe - the safe beat him, because even though he broke it open he destroyed the valuables in the process.For me, the parallels to domination are extensive. First of all, the objects I find most valuable are usually, though not always, in tougher safes. Secondly, dynamiting the safe doesn't do any good. Anyone can chain someone up and whip them until they give in. If you're willing to go far enough, you can break down anyone's resistance... but I don't want a broken sub. I want a woman with fire and passion, and I want to make that woman mine. I want to take a tough, bratty girl and make her obey me without killing the spitfire attitude that attracts me to her. I don't ask for control to be handed to me, I prefer to take it myself.Sure, dynamite is easier. It's faster. Gets the job done right away. But when I want what's inside, I'd rather take the time to do the job right. It can take a long time, but it's an art in and of itself. Deciphering the combination, working the lockpicks in, painstakingly getting it open inch by inch. And then, once you're inside, you've got complete control - not of the ruined mess that dynamite leaves behind, but of the intact treasure inside. That's what I love. I always beat the safe, and I'm always up to try a tougher one next. _______________________________ 3/1/2008 1:03:57 PM: Beyond kink, I'm interested in theater, computers, and the study of religions. I read a lot, I keep in fairly good shape, I play video games. I'm friendly and outgoing, so by all means, send me a message!Also: yes, I do have a job, a place to live, and a car, and the last two are not the same thing. On the other hand, I'm young and I have student loans, so if you're looking for someone to lavish you with money, you'll be much happier elsewhere.