I've been on this site a while, met a few good peo

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spinninsweetness

Female Submissive, 25, London, UK

I've been on this site a while, met a few good people, but still havent found my partner.I'm looking for someone, male or female, for a long-going relationship. I'm looking to build trust and communication, talking online first leading to meets. For this reason, people in the UK only. I am looking for a girl or boyfriend, a relationship that incorporates kink but isnt it entirely. For that reason, I'm only looking for people around my age- so 35 must be my top limit. I think a good sense of humour is far more important than looks, make me laugh, get my humour and I will find you far sexier than any hottie.I find that I'm on the bratty side, looking to explore and definately not slave material. I'd also be keen to explore being a little girl for a Daddy/Mummy-Dom type- but without the Daddy/Mummy title. If I respect you I will call you Sir, Ma'am or another title you desire. And yes I do know this may clash with my age limit but I have found it can work, even with people younger than me.I'm on the larger side and if that isnt for you, fair enough. Work and other commitments mean I cant relocate, so dont ask.As for what I'm into, I'm still working on that. I find I'm fairly good at taking pain- and enjoy it! Keen to try most things but I of course have my limits and expect them to be respected.In my real life, I work in childcare and adore my job. It in no way mixes with my kinky side. I love to read, walk by the river and I'm quite creative and arty.And I try to get to fet fairs and events when I can. Please dont ask for MSN address in the first message, I'd like to get to know you better a bit before adding. And I have a real dislike of messages along the lines of 'how r u' or 'I am Lord Domly Domness, kneel as you read this bitch'.~

12/24/2008 2:20:05 PM: In the spirit of starting new things and whatnot, I've begun a new livejournal blog. So if anyone cares at all about my kink exploits, ask and I will provide the name. _______________________________ 12/24/2008 1:25:43 PM: Christmas, christmas- fun but I'm glad its over. It's my birthday today so the three days inbetween always felt a bit odd, waiting for good things. I suppose technically I am an adult so it shouldnt affect me but... it seems to be residual from childhood. Just the few days of waiting, when life is at a standstill.Doesnt help the feeling that I am indeed at home, back with parents and siblings. I'm travelling back up to London on the 31st then going out for new years, I dont know where to or with whom but I do know I will be getting at least slightly ratarsed.So anyway, heres to me on my amazing birthday, looking forward to Subversion on the third and hopefully a different club in the middle of Jan, down in Bournemouth. Just need to drag people along.Happy new year to everyone. _______________________________ 12/10/2008 4:03:50 AM: Subversion, big fun last weekend. I still have bruises...... ouch. BUT I need some help, Kitty did up my corset for me and he did warn me he didnt know what he was doing..... Laces snapped. So anyone know where I can get me some strong corset laces? Online or in a real place, in the UK. Would be very helpful. Ta. _______________________________ 11/28/2008 11:53:25 AM: I never realised, looking at all the lovely pics on here, seeing people at clubs etc..... rubber masks! The full face kind! I got one as a gift and I just never realised just how difficult it is to breathe in one. Seriously, a few seconds and I am panicking, and have to rip it off. Boo hoo. _______________________________ 11/21/2008 9:47:28 PM: Its cold and I really should be at work right now. But I'm not. I'm hiding anything kink related for the visit of my lil sister. Fun times! Christmas shopping and whatnot. Whoop.