
	If I had to 'label' myself I would say I am a medium sexual masochist and submissive to certain men. I also want to mention 2 things upfront. Simply put I am into face slapping. I mention it because I know many men do not like to slap their women. On the flip side I am not into humiliation, though I do know humiliation is subjective. What one person finds humiliating I may not, but I think it's better to have a conversation about the different aspects of it on a one to one basis. I've been in this 'lifestyle' (I dislike that term) long enough to know how I need to live my life. I did the whole micro-manage, Call him Master, 36 rules thing; It did not work. I did the sub in the bedroom but equal partner's outside the bedroom; It also did not work. I feel the Man, the Dominant, should be the head of the household though I do not mean financially. I hope he will value my opinion even if it differs from his own, but in the end the final decision is his. I am more wired toward a 'Taken in hand' relationship then I am toward Ms. It may very well be semantics but in my own little bubble I don't see myself as a slave. Ds...yes. HOH....yes. Ms...can't really wrap my head around it. I am intelligent, out spoken and can hold my own whether we are talking about current events, the weather or anything in between. I will always respect the Dominant. I will defer to the Dominant. I hope to be someone's best friend, confidante, lover, slut, submissive and yes if he has a bit of a sexual sadist streak in him then I have struck gold :-) I have some meat on my bones. Too much meat for some men but that's okay- You have your own preferences just as I do. For instance, I prefer to date black men though I never rule anyone out simply because of the color of their skin. Good people come in all shapes, colors and sizes. Laughter is essential to me. I need it as much as I need air. When time permits I like taking little getaways. I love taking Carnival cruises. Other places I enjoy are Vegas, Biloxi, Gatlinburg, Cherokee, Helen and Busch Gardens. (My dream: An Alaskan Cruise) I'm very down to earth and most comfortable in a pair of jeans. I see myself as quite cute, kind-hearted, loyal and honest. I have 1 daughter who is 19 and bi-racial. She stays with me a couple days a week but does her own thing. I'm an animal lover (and NO, not in the icky way) 1 cat and 2 kittens own me right now. The three of them were adopted from the animal shelter. I work an office job Monday through Friday, which I enjoy. Hmm, guess I should mention that I do smoke cigarettes. I also enjoy occasional drinks be it Margarita's, Cheap Champagne or shots of Patron. So...If you're interested please go ahead and shoot me an e-mail. Laura