| Straightforward dominant who is looking for someone special. Being a Dominant and being a Submissive means different things to different people. Beyond the basic defination of desiring and even needing power exchange comes the how and whys unique to each of us.
So here is a bit about the kind of things I look for in a submissive and someone I want to be my own forever. Good personality and positive outlook on life. Someone who is there for her friends and has a good heart and does not create drama or snipe at people just because she doesnt agree with or like them. There is a reason most of the drama queen subs dont last long in relationships and I have not had nor do I intend to have one of them as mine. A submissive is a reflection of her dominant and she not only provides service to him but makes his duties to the community and any other tasks easier, more fullfilling and more successful. The dominant on the other hand provides security, comfort and control and looks after his submissive as if she is the most valuable thing in his life.
Besides this of course we often have the S/m side of things and that can seriously spice up your sex life in ways most people are never lucky or couragous enough to even begin to understand. For me the S/m side is more intense then most other dominants and I label myself a sadist because I crave an intensity beyond what most Dominants and Submissives alike can handle. I dont go for injury or the heavy stuff in ways you typically hear about but tend to use methods that are more intense then floggings or other basic techniques can reach.
My requirements are a bit strict so look at them carefully and if you dont think you can meet them were probably not a good fit and wasting each others time. I need someone who is smart and a good communicator and understands that this takes time and hard work. If you appear willing and able then I have a lot of patience and will do my best to train you not into just waht I want but the best you can be. However if your not putting forth the effort and dont appear to be willing or able to then I cant help you and will keep looking. Oh and a partner whos is also a Switches is fine with me, you wont be topping me but I will be happy to arrange for others to help you meet those needs and teach you what I can.
A few of the things I'm best known for... Electrical Play: Using these toys I can make a gal cum over and over till I finally listen to her pleading to stop. Or I can make it hurt from just a little bit, to intense agony! All as I see fit and as we negotiated.
Fireplay: I do most types of fireplay but favor firewands and slowly warming up the subject for a pleasing sensual experiance. I have refined a few pain techniques for those who like that sort of thing too.
Canes, Crops, Floggers: I'll use these and other impact toys often and mix it up for pleasure and pain so we both get the most enjoyment possible. Its pretty fun to lightly drum your back then caress your body with the same thing I just used to smack you a good one. With canes I also use pressure point techniques and pinching on the right subjects. |
