d in conversations about the lifestyle only...not interested in hooking up.

8/8/2009 1:51:56 AM: Interestingly enough, Master was recently subjected to a scammer on here.  Big surprise huh?  Luckily I have spent far more time on here than he has and he was very alert to the potential of this happening.  His potential find for a second girl ended up being some scammer who wanted $120 to 'celebrate her birthday' in Lagos where she was as a 'civil engineer' on assignment from the States.  LOL  In either case Master told her no way chickie and on she moved after telling Master that 'he needed to care about his slave.'  Pathetic folks.  Guys, no matter how good they seem....and frankly this one didn't seem all that great to begin with....don't send money to people you don't know.  Seriously, no matter how desperate you are feeling or how great they make themselves seem, let them put the proof where it belongs, in a meeting, before anything like the exchange of cash takes place.  Master is amused and not at all upset that his potential 'second girl(?)' ended up being a scammer.  He has me in the end, no? ~grins~
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6/2/2009 3:48:10 AM: I notice a lot of people on here writing about how everyone is so fake.  Yes, the internet breeds anonymity to the point where someone can be anything they want to be, look however they wish to look, and have fantasies that they only dreamed of.  But truth be told, if we all looked deep enough we'd see the red flags before we allowed ourselves to get hurt.  Is someone making themselves available to you other than by text or phone at a certain time or perhaps telling you they will contact you, not to contact them?  Then perhaps there is your answer.  If someone is truly wanting to let them know how you look, all cell phones have a pic feature.  Ask them to take a pic of themselves by phone and send it.  If they can't do that then they may be too good to be true.It's easy to get bogged down in the fantasy of online chat, the fantasy of being what you think that other person has wanted for so long.  But in reality if you are looking for something real, make sure the other person is ready to belly up to the bar and deliver as much as you are willing to deliver.  Good luck to all who are still looking.
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11/15/2008 1:56:10 AM: We had another amazing weekend amongst friends.  This time we rented a gorgeous house in Vermont, near Killington Mountain.  There was no snow, sadly, lots of rain though!!!  We met new friends and got together with old ones again.  As always a great time.  We missed Master David and Gail because of a family emergency but we will be seeing them on Thanksgiving.  Odd how you look forward to Thanksgiving so much more when it's with friends instead of relatives. LOL  We played games and just hung out, talking about the lifestyle.  We were fortunate to meet a poly couple....wait, then it's not a couple.  Do they call it a triad? Sheesh, I have no idea.  A Master with two slaves, there you go. It was interesting to watch the dynamic between them.  I remember there was a time where poly scared the life out of me.  As I get older and Master and I spend more time together I can see how having another female around to serve Master would be an advantage to him.  Ha, maybe he'll find a slave who loves World of Warcraft as much as he does.  Hmmmmm, then she'd get no chores done.  Have to rethink that one!!!!!Looking forward to the next gathering in March or April, hopefully this time in the Catskill Mountains.  It will be another fantastic time!! 
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8/3/2008 1:33:43 PM: I wonder if we can dream of wanting something so much that it makes us crazy.  Are dreams always meant to come true or is that why they call them dreams?  What if a dream is so real that it feels like the best thing in the world, and then when you realize it the dream is not what you thought it would be.  Is it worth dreaming and then seeing whether that dream can come true.  I suppose if the dream feels so right then there is nothing that can keep you from it.  Or is that all just a dream??
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7/23/2008 1:20:04 PM: Just an observation and perhaps clearly none of my business, but it's been making me wonder.  What is it with the profiles where guys say, 'I finally met my slave, she has given me her soul.'  Then in the next sentence they say 'I am now looking for another slave as her sister.'  Now, there are very few poly relationships out there, at least very few poly that truly work.  What is wrong with making it work with the girl you JUST found?  Isn't there a learning curve, something that you can each learn about one another before adding a second?  I know that it took almost 4 years with my Master before I was able to see him with another girl without wanting to die.  Now to each his own, so I have no problem with that, but seriously are these guys for real?