" I am not actively seeking or looking its not something I do, its important to me that he finds me,..."

I am exploring the next phase in my life. I am settled in my life, comfortable with whom I am in the vanilla world, I laugh and smile often; I am an optimistic, happy social person. I enjoy meeting and getting to know a variety of people. HOWEVER I am not sexually indiscriminate; I do not play or scene. I feel some mistake or attempt to take advantage of my openness/ friendship as an invitation to play or explore. I am loyal and monogamous by nature. It is not something I try to be, its who I am- accept this up front and please do not try or think with time you can change or convince me otherwise.

My basic foundation is simple I attempt to be morally worthy of the people in my life.  I accept them as they are and I will not ask more than I am willing to give. I request and expect the same from them.

I am ever evolving, in constant search for my new direction, but happy and content with my past. I am not without flaws, faults or mistakes. I know I am not perfect; I never will be. However I will continue to work on being a better me. 

I care about my appearance, I put effort into it. Of course I enjoy knowing that you are aware of my efforts of me and my appearance- I am a woman after all- smiles.
 
I’ve discovered it is essential "He" is proud to call me His. He doesn’t hide me from those in his life, would wear me on his sleeve, never hesitates to acknowledge my place or importance to Him. Again I will ask for nothing more than I will give.

I encourage you (everyone*) to introduce yourself make the acquaintance, say hello, or engage discourse and the sharing of opinions and ideas.

***Due to the idiots that email stupid things...i request not everyone email...lol. Please if you have a mind, care to make the acquaintance get to know one another, enjoy dialog, sharing of thoughts and opinions...by all means say hello and more.

However a "hello sub", "on your knees", "tell me about you", "bulk emails", or any of the other mindless things some choose to send please dont waste my time or yours.  I know sounds bitchy but well i guess at times i can be...(Sir do I need a spanking?- grins). I am a real person w/ a mind i am not looking for a quickie or cyber play. I am here to make friends and enjoy acquaintances of like minded folk male or female.