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Braintree

Massachusetts

5'9"

180 lbs

Straight

Caucasian

01/04/09

Hello and thank you for viewing my profile. I am a single gentleman in my 40's and considered handsome to most and much younger looking than my age. I keep myself fit and youthful. I have been natually involved with submissive females ever since I can remember. I began a my first relationship with a submissive natured woman in the early 80's. Back then I never knew there were names for specific natures and thought it was just that. Nature. I still believe it is just that and not some website, franchise or text book. When things work out naturally between the two natures then it all falls into place. When people try to force a fantasy it all falls apart. For some years now I have come to find many pleasures associated with intimate and erotic D/s. I enjoy the "getting to know you well" aspect of the relationship. To truly build that with passion. I enjoy the bonding of two and seek that to a deeper level. I am experienced in many paths of D/s only because I have taken the initiative and sincere interest to explore those feelings with past submissive lovers. I like to become involved with a partner. I seek a deep connection on many levels. By no means am I here to deal with nonsense that you usually find on sites like these. I see people blasting one another like it is a firing range and those who are just observing or not taking any serious actions with this in their life. This is not what I am about. For various reasons I see people come and go on sites like this. I am here for one reason only. To find my loving submissive. I am here to find the qualities in the nature that I have had in my life before. I seek a true natured submissive that truly wishes to give up control, build a trusting relationship and do whatever it is for me that pleases me. This needs to come from her heart. Not just because someone tells her to do it. There needs to be true feelings in her to anticipate and need my words to tell her what I want her to do. This is a part of my life that I have a great passion and respect for and I seek someone who feels the same. I can't stress enough that I am also seeking someone who is "devoted". Regardles of what may be going on in my life or your life. I need someone who is with me. Not here today and gone tomorrow. Life can be hard at times on people and not always allow us to do what we want when we want. So fair weather friends are not what I seek. The level of devotion I seek is grand. I hope you would understand what that truly is and seek it. Not just talk it or not care. I have loved different types of submissives and I am comfortable with Slim, Voluptious or BBW. Younger or older is also fine. Age and height I am open minded about. Bi-sexual, bi curious or straight are all fine. I have had relationships in the past with these types. I believe liking you for who you "really" are is most important. Experienced or non and wishing to begin exploring your curiousity is fine. Please though, if you are non experienced and reaching out to me, I would expect that you are at a level and stage in your life where you would like to progress forward. If you have your doubts then please do not contact me. I wish for someone who is ready to give me the 100% of what I desire from them. That does not mean everything at once. We progress one step at a time. You should have a deep, passionate need to please and want to feel my desire for you. I want a woman who needs to feel a man's desire and wants his pusuit of you. If you wish to feel that from me then you need to give me every reason to want you and have you. This does not mean by any standards that you set the terms and conditions. I don't play like that and I find that topping from the bottom is a total and distasteful turn off. That will not fly with me. But you must show that you want this. Not just one moment or one day. I believe the two opposites should always show their desire for each other. Earn your way into my heart and become "the" loving submissive that belongs to me. Working on limits is fine. I agree there should be safety in any relationship. If you truly care for someone then you want them safe and are considerate of their well being. I enjoy getting to know someone. Even the things they feel others may not want to know. The truth matters to me but I wont judge a person for their likings or possible mistakes they made in life. We all make them. I like a lady who does enjoy being uninhibited and very sensual and sexual, She loves having limits pushed so we "both" enjoy it. I have been involved with those who have had a combination of interests and desires. Daddy's girls, romantic sexualists, sexual sadists, secret public players, exhibitionists, sensual humiliation lovers, ...to name a few. For me, there is nothing like a submissive woman who enjoys the many flavors but can look at herself in the mirror the next day and feel comfortable with who she is. Maybe I can help you with that. But if you not ready to take that journey then no one can. If interested in getting to know one another, please email me. Tell me about yourself. Also, my list of interests are not complete. There is much more to me than what is listed in this profile. That will leave something more down the road to have conversations of with someone special. It would be nice to have some content to your email. No need to just say "hello". Feel free to talk to me. Pictures are available for exchange only. I hope to talk with you soon.

12/25/2008 1:51:59 PM: Every once in awhile in life someone special comes along. Someone who can natually bring you joy, love and happiness. They don't even really have to try. They just bring that glow with them that we all seek so hard for into your life. They turn a hard day into an easy day, a sad day into a much brighter one and a future that was once looking rather bleak and dismal now worth looking forward to. You can't always find a person like that who is genuine and can make you feel that. Most of us have tried with great difficulty to seek out that special person for ourselves and have failed. I have found that when you aren't looking, .... that one moment when you least expect it, .... that someone finds you. I am so very fortunate and greatful to have this type of person find me once again. I have waited for someone who can make me smile on the inside. I have waited for someone who makes me feel what it is to feel compassion once again in life. I have waited for you for a very, very long time. All those days, months and years that I waited with no answer in sight did not make me want to give up. Because I believed in this. I believed in you. I believe that someone like you would come into my life again. It was well worth every second, minute and hour of that wait. I am speaking about one special lady. This is for only one person. One very special person. My best friend, my love and my passionate one. Thank you NSSUB for being my angel and finding me at a time in my life when I needed someone most. I am much happier because of you. Sincerely,Your Loving Dom In Mass _______________________________ 5/7/2008 4:00:09 PM: A lady who joins this site, picture or none, usually gets bombarded with emails. You see many profiles where the lady expresses distaste because of the many unpleasant emails she gets on a daily if not weekly basis. It is very typical that this will happen. Men do not get flooded with email the same as a lady does. While some of us gentlemen sincerely look beyond the mail box I believe the lady should too. I think the possibilty of finding your passion, pride and erotic lover is at better chances when you take a moment to notice who is standing on the outside of the crowded line.