" I'm smart, I'm pretty and I'm kinky as hell. I am deep into the local, public, kink scene.  I..."

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 MistressBarbi

 Dominant Female

 Lexington 

 Kentucky

 6'0"

 42

 Bisexual

 Caucasian

 04/14/08

I'm smart, I'm pretty and I'm kinky as hell. I am deep into the local, public, kink scene.  I don't just do this online; this is my real, every day life.  I attend many local kink events and travel to regional events, sometimes teaching classes in my various areas of interest.  I have a broad area of interests but I'm very picky about who I play with (and be sure to see my note below about straight folks). I am poly, very intense at times, into some weird stuff and some pretty basic stuff. I also know how to play well with others and behave myself when necessary. I like getting into people's heads. I'm always interested in meeting new folks. I am open to new play partners and my journal below details any current desires I have.

I am attracted first and foremost to smart people. I like those who don't get hung up in a lot of manipulative game-playing and drama. I'm straightforward and very honest and I expect the same. My collared slaves have always been younger than me, as are many of my friends. Perhaps I'm immature, or perhaps the sort of things I'm into are more common in the youth.

As far as the physical characteristics I prefer in a submissive, for boys: long hair, uncut cocks, shaved, rather fem and sweet personalities. These are all things that get me really going. For girls: wavy hair, pretty smiles, enough padding to make them curvy, tall. For either gender I can be attracted to a wide variety of types if the mind-connection is there and they are passionate and fun people, but the things I've listed above are my favorites. Please be aware though; I am very picky. Also, in general I do not play with straight boys (and I guess, obviously, not straight girls either). As far as personalities, I like people who have the guts to try new things. I also demand actual service. I am not here to cater to your sexual kink. I want people around me who understand what it means to be in a M/s relationship. Such relationships take time to develop and involve much more than just kinky sex. I am a sadist, so I want a submissive who can stand up to some pain or is into deep mind control and service.

I have two boys in collars at this time. Both of them live with me full time and both are very much 24/7 real-life relationships. I am also married to another Dom. If it isn't already quite obvious, we are poly. I'm not into online-only play. I also have a few friends around whom I play with at parties. I'm always interested in meeting new people.

You may contact me but please note that I will not answer those who do not know how to be respectful and have at least a basic understanding of grammar and punctuation. I am not kidding about this. Do not write a message to me which includes no upper-case letters or periods.