NO MALES NEED APPLY!! YOU WILL NOT BE CONSIDERED!!

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rkfdbdsm

Female Dominant, 21, Rockford, Illinois

NO MALES NEED APPLY!! YOU WILL NOT BE CONSIDERED!! I WILL SPEAK WITH MEN, BUT I AM ONLY CONSIDERING WOMEN AT THIS TIME! ANYONE WISHING TO CONTACT ME SHOULD READ THIS PROFILE IN FULL!!I am a dominant, bisexual woman who feels the need to stay in control of things around me. I am currently own a male switch but I also want a couple of females. I enjoy all things new age as well as everything Japanese, especially food and entertainment. I have a wide variety of tastes, sexually, and need to meet someone who can accept that and grow with it. That's how I am with a lot of things. My tastes can change day-to-day or even hour-to-hour. I am probably best described as mercurial, chaotic, or just a bit nuts! I would like to meet a feminine submissive, and hopefully a bit girlie. Make-up, long hair, comfortable in dresses and heels, that sort of thing. My male says I like that type because I am a man in a hot girl's body! He's probably right, but what does he know? He's just a big girl!! :) My Ideal Person:I am looking for a submissive girl to serve me. I don't want a "slave", because I expect her to have her own thoughts and opinions. I may not always feel compelled to act on those things, though. At the same time, I'm not looking for a "life-partner". I am in charge of the household, so I get power of veto over all things. Think of it more like a pet. I love and care for her, she loves and serves me. I particularly like quiet, pretty girls, especially ones who are more than a bit girlie. My house-girl will need to be a decent cook and capable of everyday housekeeping tasks as well as being open to a fairly wide variety of sensual behavior. Providing personal care (massage, pedicures, etc.) will be a must, but these things can be taught. While bisexuality is not a must, anyone serving me must understand that they will be expected to engage in certain activities with my other sex partners on occasion, particularly my male pet, but only on those rare occasions where I choose to unlock his chastity belt! Understand, however, that I am seeking such a girl for ALL aspects of my life, not just in the bedroom!! If this is the life for you, contact me and we will see about a face-to-face interview and maybe a test run.Until I find such a girl, I am more than willing to entertain the idea of a playmate. If this is all you are intersted in, contact me and I will be happy to discuss this, but know that my slaveboy will be allowed to observe, though not necessarily participate unless you so desire. And if he deserves it. **Please note** I am seeking a someone for a 24/7 position. I do not cyber, and I am not really into the "weekend thing". I am not looking for someone who has "no limits". In general, I have found that such people want the fantasy, not the reality. Besides, I have things I would never do to another person, so why wouldn't you have at least a few things that you consider too much? Also, I am not a fan of spankings, a personal thing from my childhood, though whips and crops and things are kinda fun. Nor do I think of myself as cruel or sadistic, since inflicting hardcore pain or humiliation is not my bag. I can deal with metting out a little, but certainly not on the level some people claim to prefer. If you seek those extremes, please seek them elsewhere. Finally, I am not looking for a piece of ass! I am not willing to become a piece of ass. If you need to get laid, I suggest you try the nearest bar! I honestly want to find a girl who can serve me out of love, loyalty, and respect! Thank you!!I understand that some men on here feel that THEY should be the exception to my rule of NO MEN, so allow me to make this small disclaimer. Fully functional men expect sex occasionally and tend to get upitty with other males. I don't intend to play referee and I don't involve myself in BDSM for sexual purposes. It is about power, control, and discipline. This is why I won't have another set of testicles in my home. The only way I would ever allow a male, other than the one I already have, to serve in my home, is as a eunuch. And NO! I am not taking care of that for you. That would have to be done before you ever met me. I hope that clears things up!For all those that seem to feel the need to call me by some honorific, I prefer "Lady", "m'lady", or simply "boss". Anyone calling me "mistress", "goddess", or "miss" will prove only that they have not read this profile and I will feel insulted that they chose to contact me without that simple courtesy.

12/19/2008 7:23:11 AM: Wow!!! I am getting rather frustrated. I have invited several girls to spend a part of my Christmas vacation with me, and all have backed out at the last minute or just out and out stopped responding. I probably shouldn't be surprised. Out of the 20 or so girls I have given my number to, only 3 have called, but one turned out to be a guy and another was 16!!!I know this site is full of fakes and flakes, but COME ON!!! This is getting old fast! Why do people say they are coming, then delete their accounts and stop responding to IMs and emails? I have to assume that they are either liars or they are here for fantasies that they don't have the guts to go through with. Please, if you read this and you have no intention of actually trying out the lifestyle, please don't contact me. It is hard enough to keep coming back here to be rejected by legitamate prospects for this reason or that, but develop a great rapport with someone, only to find they were playing head games all along hurts. And it pisses me off even more! _______________________________ 12/2/2008 5:44:56 AM: ATTENTION!!!! I am not interested in a human toilet! I find the idea disgusting!! PLEASE! FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THE GODS OF MEN!!! Stop offering it. I find the notion vominous!!! NOWHERE on my profile does it indicate I would have any interest in pissing, shitting, spitting, or otherwise excreteing on you.... I will stop talking to people who can't accept this. I don't like the idea, so stop trying to force it on me. NOT GONNA HAPPEN!!!! JEEBUS!!!! _______________________________ 11/24/2008 8:03:20 AM: OMFG!!!! I was mostly kidding about accepting a eunuch. Mostly. I mean I would consider it, but who thought any men would read that far into the profile? LOL!! But now, after just a few hours, I have had eight guys ask if I was serious. Three of them are, in fact, actual eunuchs! WOW!! There must be more eunuchs out there than I thought!! But that's even not the best part!! I have had fourteen men ask how they can become eunuchs in order for me to be willing to consider them!! ROFLMAO!!! You would think most of them could look up the term. But no!!! I had one guy who was desperately telling me how much he HAD to become my eunuch so he could have sex with me. ATTENTION!! There is a minimum intelligence required in any positions in my home. Anyone proving a lack thereof is automatically disqualified from consideration!!! This last part obviously applies to those above asking the "how-to" questions. _______________________________ 11/8/2008 4:44:46 AM: Several times in the last few weeks, I have had guys try and contact me because they want to talk about sex. Apparently, since I am on this site, and they think I look hot, they think that sex is something I would discuss with perfect strangers. WTF??? And to make matters worse, when I tell them I am more into the power, the control, the mental and emotional aspects of BDSM, they suddenly get upset with me for not being the whore they assumed I was. Excuse me?? If you think BDSM is only about sex, why bother with the BDSM lifestyle at all? Or are these guys so hard up they figure "I'll let her spank me a couple times and then fuck her, right"? PLEASE... Enough hot guys attend my college that if I just wanted to fuck a guy other than the one I live with, I wouldn't bother looking online!I want to get INVOLVED with a WOMAN who can SERVE me as a SUBMISSIVE, not just a piece of ass, or maid, or girlfriend (but maybe a little bit of each of those if thats what works for us both). I DON'T want to get LAID by a MALE who's TOTALLY CLUELESS. Hell, if they can't read well enough to at least browse my profile, they probably can't get penis measurements right anyway. LOL _______________________________ 9/2/2008 10:34:36 PM: It occurs to me that if I am always using the search feature to find girls that are at least interested in other girls, why can't men search for girls that are at least interested in men? I'm blocking 10-12 idiots a day who write me, usually with cut-and-paste messages, and all I can think is, "why would they be using a search that would have ME pop up?" Can they honestly not understand how to use the search feature here on CollarMe? Or are they such losers that every woman looking for a man has already turned them down? Are they now messaging ANY woman that hasn't blocked them yet? Pathetic!!It gets worse! I have a submissive female friend who gets 8 or 10 subbie guys a day asking her to spank them. Are they that stupid they can't figure out that she isn't interested in spanking anyone? She wants to be the one spanked. That's why she's looking for a male dominant!!! Dumbasses!!!!I swear!!! The internet is lowering male IQs at an alarming rate!!!! We women won't have to take control of the world, they'll hand it over to us after most of their brains have melted away to nothing thanks to internet porn!!! Poor illiterate bastards...