| I am a single professional guy yearning to break free from the gravitational pull of the vanilla world. I am in the midst of a long-overdue exploration of a side of my personality which has bubbled just beneath the surface for a while. I recognize that I have kept this part of who I am under wraps for far too long. I plan to use this platform to educate myself, discuss and debate the burning issues of the day, share thoughts, ideas, and insights with other like-minded folks, and gain new perspectives on the dynamics of male/female relationships and of the human condition in general. By the way, I have little patience for those who embrace this lifestyle and all its trappings with something bordering upon religious fervor, though I'll admit to enjoying a hearty laugh every so often reading some of the content posted here. Seriously, some of you need to come up for air every once in awhile...
Still with me? Then let me be perfectly clear: I am ultimately seeking a real time monogamous relationship, once a true meaningful connection with that person has been established. My main interest (and fascination, really) lies in the vastly differing responses that submissive women have to varying degrees of force, control, restraint, and denial. I love the apparent dichotomy of a distinguished, professional woman by day being transformed into a demure little fucktoy by night. I consider myself a nurturing kind of guy, and nurturing can manifest itself in a variety of ways. For me, it's the intense mental and psychological aspects of bdsm that intrigue me more so than the actual physical reality. In other words, if you happen to be a big-time pain enthusiast, or have some deep-rooted need for constant degradation and humiliation, please look elsewhere. If, on the other hand, you believe that the human brain is the most powerful sexual organ, then perhaps we should talk. Because at the end of the day, it's the mindset and the attitudes of the parties involved that's the real draw for me. Well, that and the occasional slap of your ass that will momentarily take your breath away. So with that being said, what makes you tick?
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Addendum:
Sorry, but I have no interest in pursuing anything other than an online relationship with you if you're a tobacco user. Secondhand smoke and I just don't coexist very well. Also, your profile ought to be able to convey a tiny inkling of the person that you are outside of this domain. More than just a sloppy sentence fragment will come in handy to achieve that goal. Plus, please don't address me with any salutation other than my proper name--all those protocols strike M/me as rather S/silly, D/don't Y/you T/think? And finally, if it's not too great an imposition, could you please have a sense of humor about life's rich pageant?
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--Curriculum Vitae--
Currently enrolled in:
Principles of Conflict Resolution &
Applied Cognitive Dissonance
at the
Institute for Non-Sustainable Living,
Midwest Campus
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"Discipline is never an end in itself, only a means to an end."
~Robert Fripp
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