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DesertRat
Male Dominant, 57, Paris of the SW , New Mexico
I am serious and responsible, but also casual and fun-loving. I'm fit and healthy, too. I love my cats, other cats, music, fast cars, motorcycles, books, bikes, cats, and the outdoors. In my personal and professional life I try to be honest and ethical. I'm an experienced, dominant man who can be loving and affectionate with the right girl, but who has also been called 'wickedly sadistic'. I think that's an overstatement but I do indeed enjoy inflicting a degree of pain, so that aspect of the relationship (as well as bondage and other pleasures) will be fully explored. I don't smoke, drink or do drugs, but don't mind if others do. I am looking for a slave girl. She'll be totally owned, well cared for, and should be ready and willing to learn to please me. Previous experience is not required. A monogamous, hot, long-term relationship is the goal.Age 'play', as such, does not hold strong appeal for me, but I do like the fatherly feelings I experience when my slave is significantly younger than me. That said, I am not looking for someone way younger but I would not completely rule out that possibility. On the other hand, I believe success is most likely with someone 35+ years of age but I could be wrong about that. Intelligence is more important than education, but both are turn-ons for me. I prefer her to be sweet, petite, and physically fit, or perhaps shapely, pretty close to fit, and willing to work on it along with me. I could totally deal with a painslut, and enjoy administering other forms of harshness, but I prefer someone who does not want to always be treated extremely brutally. No matter what, preferences will be determined early on in the relationship. In addition to our 24/7 TPE, I expect my girl to be my mate in every sense of the word; this will include or exclude childbearing, as we decide together. I want to enjoy everything there is to enjoy in a relationship: talking, listening, shopping, traveling--the whole package...but always in the context of our bond as master and slave. Please re-read that last sentence carefully. If you can't wrap your mind around the concept, then you're not the one for me.As suggested above, someone, regardless of age, who wants a bit of a father figure would be good for me. And did I mention a sense of humor? That is very important, too. How about communicating clearly? Does the importance of that even need to be said? Must be willing to eventually relocate to a rural--but NOT remote--setting in the wooded foothills of the Sacramento Mountains in southern New Mexico. It is possible to find the finer cultural experiences here, but it takes a little more effort. Not much "nightlife" here but that's okay with me--I'm not really into that, and I know where to find it if I want it. There is hipness here but it's not exactly New York or Paris. This is a great place to explore, hike, camp, and stargaze. The desert is a very beautiful and a very romantic place, especially at night. Naturally, I will help with the relocation to whatever extent is necessary. I am willing to spend whatever amount of time is needed in order to really get this right. Oh, yeah...I have cats. They're very nice. You don't have to love 'em, but you will have to be nice to them.final note (no exceptions): No Republicans; No Poly; No sharing; No Republicans.
12/28/2008 6:04:07 AM: The focus just keeps getting sharper. The more I 'see' the more I like. _______________________________ 12/19/2008 2:13:20 PM: I'm focusing my attention on getting to know a special someone. It's been an extremely enjoyable process so far, and if it went on for a few more decades, I'd be okay with that.
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