nothingness before service which is rendered in a spirit of joy."~~ Mahatma Gandhi

3/16/2010 3:04:35 AM: 
Have you ever made decisions about your relationships based on your 
feelings instead of the facts? When it comes to love, feelings rule the 
day. Emotions guide the ship. Goose bumps call the shots. But should 
they? Can feelings be trusted? Can a relationship feel right but be 
wrong? 
        Feelings can fool you. Ever wish you had a way to 
assess the quality of your affection? A DNA test for love?  “Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth”  In this  lies a test for love. 
        Want to separate the fake from the factual, the counterfeit 
from the real thing? Want to know if what you feel is genuine love? Ask 
yourself this: 
        Do I encourage this person to do what is right? For true love
 “takes no pleasure in other people’s sins but delights in the truth”  
        If you find yourself prompting evil in others, heed the 
alarm. This is not love. And if others prompt evil in you, be alert. 
        
        That siren you hear? It’s the phony-love detector. This guy 
doesn’t love her. He may love having sex with her. He may love her body.
 He may love boasting to his buddies about his conquest. But he doesn’t 
love her. True love will never ask the “beloved” to do what he or she 
thinks is wrong. 
        Love doesn’t tear down the convictions of others. Quite the 
contrary.
        
        “Love builds up” 
        Do you want to know if your love for someone is true? If your
 friendship is genuine? Ask yourself: Do I influence this person to do 
what is right?

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3/12/2010 7:53:05 AM: rebuilding trust .... firm reliance on the integrity, ability or character of a person.
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3/10/2010 12:45:03 PM: when my heart is aching as it is about to break, I run to my place of solace, and only hope and hope is not failing me, once again.Isn't it interesting you see all the signs in stores like DREAM, HOPE, LIVE, LAUGH, LOVE......not one of them states TRUST.  I wonder why?
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3/1/2010 7:21:39 PM: I have been told my location is off a bit.....I agree !  Since my snow bank is having a melt down, I need to relocate!   HA!!! 
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2/26/2010 7:02:06 PM: I was reading profiles tonight, something I don't usually do much of.  One very prominent theme recurs almost constantly .....
a ' fem submissive' wanting a dominant who will 'do for her.'
He has to go to great lenths to do for her but she not once mentions why submission is inmportant to her or what it means to her.  And all the professional photos !! whew !!