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Long story short, I enjoy meeting and talking with people. To that end Summit City Munch was formed here in Fort Wayne a couple of years ago. What I enjoy most is the one on one or small group conversations. To that end, I often invite people into my home to enjoy a meal and a conversation. Yes, people can actually have a conversation about the lifestyle and keep their clothes on.
While the internet is an easy source of information the best exchange of information comes from a conversation and discussion of ideas and concepts. So if you live in the Fort Wayne area and are interested in talking with someone about the lifestyle drop me a line.
If you're new and have questions, I'll be more than happy to answer them for you in a save and predator free environment.
If your wondering about my ability to up hold my end of the conversation, I've been doing this since High School (that was before the internet was invent). If you want more information go to dshaven.com and you’ll find it.
Original Profile:
Who am I? Well my name is Melissa and I am an owner and a sadist. I have this theory Build it and they will come. In other words, if I have my life together, then I will not only be able to attract the people I want for my house but I will be able to be who they need me to be. My relationships are based on Ds. My house is a hierarchy and thus everyone knows and understands their place. That also means my house is a multi-slave household or as some put it, poly.
I have had my girl Phoenix (cm profile PhoenixLM) for six years now. Over the years others have come and gone. Phoenix is my right hand. She is a wealth of lifestyle knowledge and a wise slave could learn a lot from her. Phoenix handles much of the training in my house.
Who do I want? I want people that want to belong to something larger than them self. My house is larger than any one individual in it, including me. I desire people that know who they are and don’t need me to micro manage them. It’s my responsibility to create a world of structure that allows you to be who you are. I create a world that gives you the opportunity to grow and become the person you wish to be. Someone to whom, my displeasure would be their worst possible punishment. The model I use is a Manor House, since it gives me a clearly defined hierarchy model to start from. Slaves need opportunity to serve and be of use, the Manor House model allows for this. Slaves need to be cared for and nurtured in their growth and again this model allows for that.
Not everyone that comes too my house will contribute in the same manner. Some will have a primary responsibility to the operation of the house and yes, I own my own home. Others will be required to work outside the house and contribute to the financial health of the house. I’m not looking for a financial slave but reality is it cost money to house, cloth and feed everyone. So yes, there is a financial requirement.
I understand most seek a romantic relationship with their Master or Mistress. Others are just looking for some kinky fun. Well I’ve had my years of kinky fun and although I still enjoy my personal dungeon there is much more to this lifestyle. It’s the bond and relationship I have with those in my house that I seek. Play partners are a dime a dozen. I can find anyone to beat, whenever I wish. Too own someone heart, body and soul, that is a real treasure and much more satisfying.
Age and looks are not important, just a deep desire and a need to serve. I have friends from many different subcultures so if vampires, Goth, Pagans or Satanists bother you, my house is probably not for you.
Want more information? Just google “dshaven” and you’ll find it.
Melissa
Mistress of Ds Haven
